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How long can infatuation last?

Asked by killerkadoogen (426points) January 19th, 2010

How long can infatuation for someone last? That is if it really is just infatuation…

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absalom's avatar

Lifetimes.

borderline_blonde's avatar

About a year. A chemical called phenylethylamine (I think that’s the correct spelling) is released into the system when you’re infatuated with someone so that you’ll make lots and lots of babies. But, once those babies are born, your body naturally needs to calm down so that you can stop thinking about yourself and your new lover and get down to the business of child-rearing.

Love, appreciation, and attraction to a partner, on the other hand, can last a lifetime.

Violet's avatar

I agree with @absalom
Lust is what fades in the way @borderline_blonde was describing. It’s dopamine, norepinephidrine, phenylethylamine (PEA) and serotonin that all cause the lust

absalom's avatar

Just sayin’, I’ve been infatuated with the same guy for four years now. But we never got married and had babies together, so maybe that’s why.

qashqai's avatar

If it is just infatuation then my answer would be out of sight, out of mind.

HTDC's avatar

I think lust and infatuation are very similar except that lust is more sexual whilst infatuation is more emotional. So I think infatuation lasts longer. I would say lust lasts for months whereas infatuation usually lasts a year or two.

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