For the ladies (NSFW)....Assuming your guy required little recovery after sex and could go as long as you wanted, would that be ok with you?

I don’t see why that wouldn’t be okay.

I don’t want it to last forever, so I think that would be a pain.

Yes, because ejaculate is gross. So, it wouldn’t bother me in the least.

What’s the goo got to do with extended foreplay and stamina?

without being too graphic, i don’t know if its cause i don’t get as much as i would like. but personally i have no problem continuing after ejaculation. it may take me 5 or 10 minutes to rest, and it can be quite uncomfortable at times to keep going. but possible.

the times when i dont, i realize its cause i had had enough and just quit and decided to chill. i think most guys would be able to keep going if they where to just decide ’‘im not done yet’’. i think its actually probably a learned behavior, or at least a partially conscious decision to stop.

It is possible to have good sex without ejaculation. I’m living proof. That’s not to say that we wouldn’t like to, but sometimes…. Sometimes I can’t. Frustrating, yes, unenjoyable? Well that depends on the sex and her.

Of course! A guy that can go for round 2 and even round 3 is a big plus to me.

@Axemusica- Are you taking Paxil by any chance?

Isn’t the climax the ejaculation? Is the guy shooting blanks?

@Violet There is a difference. It is possible for a guy to have a physical and emotional orgasm without having an ejaculation.

@poisonedantidote and @Axemusica as men, what is the difference between a climax, and an orgasm? Is there a difference? I didn’t think there was
(within the details, it says “This question assumes that he climaxes but does not ejaculate”)

I don’t understand the question. I tried, but I can’t get a handle on it. Whatever does she mean?

@Zen_Again my question or @plethora‘s ?

@Zen_Again @Violet I may be using confusing terms here. Substitute “orgasm” for climax. It is possible for a man to have an orgasm (physically and emotionally) but not ejaculate. The result in that case is that the man has greatly extended staying power, there being no recuperative period as a result of no ejaculation. Question is, would the absence of an ejaculation be a bummer to the woman? Or is she just as happy with much longer staying power?

when you say “orgasm (physically and emotionally) but not ejaculate”, is this just a regular orgasm (just without the cum)?

You got it, Violet.

oh, ok. I have never been with a guy who didn’t ejaculate.

@Violet So what’s your thought on the tradeoff, if he’s having fun and you are too?

It wouldn’t bother me, unless I was giving oral and didn’t know that he had climaxed… and he never told me. My jaws get tired!

What would be the downside of him being able to go on as long as I wanted him to?

Two answers; if my man doesn’t cum, I feel as though I didn’t please him. I would feel “obligated”, almost like an internal competiveness to make him cum. I know sometime the intent of sex
may not be the cumming part, but the physical closeness; but I believe in effeciency. Kill two birds with one stone.

Secondly, I would not want more than one round: if he cums. In my experience, the additional rounds last much longer, and I have not the stamina nor desire. Make it ALL count in one round.

@plethora- “It is possible for a guy to have a physical and emotional orgasm without having an ejaculation.”

It is? Really? I’ve been a guy for 48 years and that’s news to me. With men orgasm = ejaculation.

@AstroChuck Yeah, I didn’t get that one either.

Isn’t this like some form of the Sutra?

@AstroChuck I’m with you here, I didn’t know it was possible.

I see the question has been reworded after my initial reply so here it goes again.

If the question is would I enjoy sex with a man without any ejaculate then the answer is sure, why not? As long as he is able to orgasm then I don’t care if he makes goo or not.

If the question assumes a man doesn’t orgasm without ejaculate then that’s false, sorry. I’ve had a few lovers who had been able to have more than one orgasm before the final orgasm with ejaculate.

Again I’m going to write that a man being able to ejaculate has little to do with how long he’s interested in foreplay or his stamina during penetration. I’ve had lovers who can get an erection after orgasm in less than an hour and some who needed nearly the whole day, surprisingly to me their ages didn’t dictate this.

My personal preference is for a man to be able to have sex with me and have his own orgasms each time twice a day on average and the goo doesn’t bother me a bit.

@AstroChuck funny you said that. About 5 years ago I was on paxil I’m currently not taking any meds & when I was on them I had no sexual drive what so ever. One of the main reasons I stopped taking them.

@Violet I didn’t say there was a difference & I myself haven’t “climaxed” without ejaculation, but that’s not to say the actual sex wasn’t enjoyable.

@Axemusica- I know of someone who the entire time he was on Paxil was unable to “achieve”. His libido was still healthy however, he just couldn’t seal the deal. He’s no longer taking it and now he makes a mess like the rest of us dudes.

No, I tend to get very sensitive in those regions after a bit. If he kept going and going I’d wind up very sore and it would take away from the experience, to me. Besides I love when he cums! It’s like a reward for myself, watching him squirm and wiggle under my touch till he “pops” ;) What a great question to be answering after last night! WOW! Hehehehe okay I’m going to go before I get into the little details ;) GQ!

@ElleBee… aww tease and then run away!

@plethora tradeoff?
@Axemusica ok, thank you

I have actual experience with a man who can climax without ejaculating. It definitely does happen.

I stand corrected.
Very weird, though. I’ve certainly never experienced it.

Well, I’m impressed…...you guys give great answers to anything….:) Thanks to all…and anymore that come along.

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