(NSFW) Women: If your male partner isn't able to perform... what would you like them to do?

Skipped on over to oral (hopefully, he’s good at it), and also, he can use two or more digits (oral and penetration at the same time).

@jmah digits?

@Shield_of_Achilles fingers.

@Shield_of_Achilles Digits is a synonym for fingers.

Roger that.

I would be concerned if that happened, even if I was “all worked up” because that is a sign of something. Imagine how HE must feel. To ignore it is not logical and it very well could stem from a medical problem. I would encourage him to go to the doctor, not for my sake but for his health. Fingers are temporary.

Tie me up, use a blind fold, and then give me oral, use all kind of toys, etc

@Shield_of_Achilles: Samuel Pepys (Brit) used that often in his famous diary (1660–1690). Many entries ended with, “Rogered my wife (the maid, someone) and so to bed.”

(presumably not with his digits…)

I would hope that he would just roll over and forget about it which is what I long to do- unfortunately I don’t have that situation so that never happens

Man, I need to proofread before posting. I meant to say “skip on over…”

@gailcalled A poetic heart, and well placed words are the key to some hearts.

unfortunately those hearts are had to find now a days

@Flo It can be mental rather than physical too.

@Shield_of_Achilles: I’m a poetry loving woman but after being in the midst of sexual passion, a poem is not what I want. As far as I’m concerned, men have hands, lips and tongues they can lend to not leave me strung out.

I think that if this happened, my “worked up” would likely dissipate. What I would want most of all is for him to not worry about it if it’s the first time. More than once or twice and then I would consider worrying.

I’d like him to get off the stage ;)

@lucillelucillelucille:
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@hungryhungryhortence as well as dirty talk…:)

(said in the manner of John Wayne) “That’s right, Corky, it’s time to saddle up, we’re heading south of the border. You gotta please Missy.”

@hiphiphopflipflapflop: Robin Williams is a funny and nasty man.

he has fingers and he has a tongue so now’s the time to use them. also if we had any toys that would be the time, too.

i would also not lecture him on seeing a doctor, i would reassure him (at the time) that it’s ok, don’t worry about it. they say when a guy is worried about it, it can cause more problems. after the fact, like the next day when we were dressed and not having sex, i would tell him that if it concerns him he should see the doctor. however i don’t think the time for the “doctor lecture” would be when we were in bed and he had the problem. that’s the time for reassurance and moving on to other things.

It would depend on why he lost the erection. Did he lose the mood? Interruption? Medication interaction? Already came and I hadn’t yet? If he’s in the mood, then I would hope he’d continue with other forms of penetrative and non-penetrative sex or I’d ask if he wanted to watch me. If we can get it back, then great. If not, that’s okay too. There’s always next time.

I don’t think that “sex” has to immediately end just because a guy is no longer erect.