I’ve had eczema since i was a baby so I feel for ya! I have tried every mild soap, moisturizer, cream, ointment, prescription steroid cream that’s sold.
First off, I’ve heard from many other people – and it has been my own personal experience – that while there is no cure for it, many people kind of just ‘grow out of it’. I used to get really bad flare ups on my inner arms and behind my knees and once I started going to college it just cleared up and has never been that bad since.
Second, a warning on dermatologists. Most are quick to start prescribing stuff. If you are really suffering, this may be a good option to quickly get it under control. But eventually, you’ll either want to find a more holistic derm that isn’t in bed with Big Pharma or track your outbreaks to try to nail down triggers.
Personally, I have noticed that stress, being very hot and sweaty, a diet high in sugars, spending extensive time in air conditioning (because of dry air), moving back and forth between cold and hot environments (e.g. sitting in air conditioned space at 72 deg F then going outside to 85 deg F, and alternating back and forth), and the fall-winter season (because of dry air) seem to be triggers. I’ve met other people w/ eczema that agree. Also when I was extremely fit (working out pretty rigorously every day), eczema completely vanished from my life for the first time ever and it wasn’t until I got a sedentary full time ‘real world’ job that it started to flare up again (A/C + stress + poor eating + no exercise = trouble). Exercising relaxes me so that may be part of it, and perhaps good blood circulation and drinking lots of water helps, too. Getting a little sun daily also seems to help me. Playing tennis always makes me itch, but not water sports like canoe paddling, surfing, swimming (although the chlorine might be too drying).
Oils, lotions, creams, and powders didn’t ever offer me much relief. You might try icing it to kill the itch. It cannot get worse if you don’t scratch so the trick is finding a way to avoid this – I know, much easier said than done!
Steroid creams (by prescription only) did usually work, but they thin your skin w/ prolonged use, I think they make you more susceptible to sunburn, and I would want to avoid using it on my face…
Eczema quite often goes hand in hand with allergies and asthma, although I don’t have the latter. I am allergic to dust and dander and strong fragrance. I would recommend not using anything that is scented. Always buy fragrance free. Also consider laundry detergent – Tide, All, these things are extremely harsh and strongly fragranced. Avoid it. I buy Country Save laundry det. and it doesn’t smell like anything. Avoid perfumes, again anything that is fragranced, scented, perfumated. Anything that smells! Try getting an air purifier for your room and/or house that will suck up dust, and vacuum or de-dust regularly.
I have heard that there is a test you can do to determine what you are allergic to, and it involves simply exposing patches of skins to various known allergens and observing what triggers a reaction. No one appears to offer this where I am, but they may where you live. Maybe you can call around and see. Knowing what you’re allergic to would probably save you from a lifetime of unpredictable misery.
If the eczema is around your mouth, consider what kind of toothpaste and or mouthwash you’re using and see if switching to a different formula makes a difference. Toothpaste is drying as is Listerine or any mouthwash with alcohol in it, and it may be a trigger or may be making it worse. Also certain foods might be exacerbating the problem. For example, the perimeter of my mouth used to get super itchy when I ate shoyu eggplant.
Doctors often recommend oatmeal baths to people suffering from eczema as relief. You could try mixing oatmeal with honey (moisturizing, supposedly) and applying to affected area like a face mask and see if that helps.
Also, a note on ‘natural’ products. Not all products sold at health food stores are created equal. I find that some of them, despite having extremely mild/not harsh ingredients, make me itchy. I’m betting chemistry explains the phenomenon, but nobody has been able to give me a decent answer yet. There is a kids shampoo made by Gabriel (you can google it) that I really like. I’ve just been using basic glycerin soap…
I basically got rid of it by growing out of it, although I will reiterate that regular exercise, eating healthy (lots of fresh fruits and vegetables, very little processed foods, no junk food), managing stress, and having an outdoors lifestyle seem to have really helped. Indoor air quality is usually to be pretty bad compared to outdoors (I designed HVAC for a living) so the less time you spend indoors the better…unless maybe you live in LA…
It sucks to have eczema but don’t be depressed. Even with the ugly itchy patches, I still got asked to a ton of proms and had boys following me around everywhere. It is not the end of the world, and with any luck you will grow out of it soon.