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sassygurrl82's avatar

How can I get my girlfriend to want me sexually?

Asked by sassygurrl82 (13points) March 1st, 2008 from iPhone
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DiegotheGreat42's avatar

tape of chuck nortis to your face
dont laugh or say I’m wasting time till you try it!

DiegotheGreat42's avatar

tape a picture of**
Sorry for mistakes

DiegotheGreat42's avatar

norris**
still getting used to iPhone
: )

srmorgan's avatar

Treat her well, make her laugh, take a shower every morning (or more if needed), wine helps sometimes.

srm

squirbel's avatar

Assuming from your username, make sure she swings the same as you. She might go for the emotional connection only.

Riser's avatar

hey sweetheart,

Look. Make sure that you aren’t changing anything about yourself for some else. This “girlfriend” should want to be with you sexually because of the connection of intimacy sex can give.

You shouldn’t be with someone who requires you to do something special in order to be with you. If you do something special it should only be out of your sensitivity to their non-communicated needs, but please don’t feel like there is ANYTHING you need to change for someone else. You should only change if you feel there is something in you that YOU do not like, otherwise only listen to opinion, do not automatically act on it.

Highest Regards,

Daniel Riser

Riser's avatar

I put “girlfriend” in quotations because of the fact that she won’t be with the person asking the question. It had nothing to do with my personal opinion on sexual orientation. I am 100% pro- gay. I have to be otherwise my boyfriend wouldn’t be too happy.

Highest Regards,

Daniel Riser

Spargett's avatar

I’d ask yourself what you’d want about yourself first. I’d be interesting to see what you find. Depending on what find (or more importantly, don’t find), you can start your work from there.

I’d start by figuring out if its something emotional or physical. From there you can slowly widdle your way down.

This may not be what you want to hear but there is a slight chance that your relationship is just over. Just wanted to be realistic about my answer.

El_Cadejo's avatar

well all else fails GHB is a good alternative :-P

Fallenangel's avatar

Give her a ruthie…..

yes, this is a joke

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