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NSFW - Is it unusual for a male not to enjoy masturbation?

Asked by misterx (269points) January 28th, 2010

Just like pretty much every guy/person for that matter, I love sex. However, when it comes to masturbating I get absolutely no pleasure out of it and have never even been close to being able to make myself cum. Is this just me and is this a bad thing, health wise?

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tb1570's avatar

Bad thing? No. Unusual? Yes. Something to be worried about? Probably not.

life_after_2012's avatar

atleast you know you can hold your shit.

eponymoushipster's avatar

maybe youre not doing it right.

sjmc1989's avatar

I am not a male, but it is difficult for me to get pleasure out of pleasuring myself. I think it just makes me want the real thing more and I feel lonely. Now pleasuring with a partner different story! Do you feel similar when you try to masturbate?

FishGutsDale's avatar

Are you religious? Have you been raised to believe that it is sinful or anything like that to do it?

breedmitch's avatar

gets popcorn

tuxuday's avatar

Get over the ‘i made a mistake’ feeling & enjoy. Its that simple. :)

FlutherMe's avatar

Well I don’t find pr0n as intersting anymore. It gets kind of boring unless I find something really hot. Maybe your not finding the right stuff.

Violet's avatar

Unusual, maybe a little, but it’s not bad (I didn’t realize how many u’s were in unusual!!)

hungryhungryhortence's avatar

It’s unusual but I wouldn’t worry too much. Having real live sex with another human is so much more gratifying (personally, you don’t have to believe me) and sometimes masturabation just makes people angry like they’re having to take decaff rather than caffiendated.

Sophief's avatar

My boyfriend doesn’t like to do it, obviously he had to when he was single, but now I’m here he has me, whenever he wants it.

Zen_Again's avatar

Maybe @eponymoushipster will demonstrate?

eponymoushipster's avatar

@Zen_Again what’s your mom’s availability?

Self_Consuming_Cannibal's avatar

I’ll type my answer as soon as I’m done masturbating. lol

Zen_Again's avatar

@eponymoushipster What is it with you and my mom every time the subject of masturbation comes up? She’s 97 for heaven’s sake – look at porn like everyone else, man.

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