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My boyfriend (of 2 months) means ALOT to me, valentines day is coming...WHAT TO DO?

Asked by abrooke (74points) January 29th, 2010

What gift? What to do? And anything special in the bedroom? We haven’t messed around like that yet but im thinking valentines day would be a good time to start.

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Cheeseball451's avatar

I would take him to a very nice place where you to are alone…....... and give him something very nice and then whatever you have in mind…:)

plethora's avatar

Id vote for a really nice romantic dinner at a really nice cozy place, followed by wild and crazy sex….so don’t eat too much.

suncatnin's avatar

While this may just be me, I feel like “messing around” for the first time on V-Day might be stressful and not as romantic as it seems. If it goes there, then that’s great, but I wouldn’t want to push it. I tend to go with how things progress naturally, but still be prepared with condoms, lube, etc. so as to not be caught off-guard. Just keep your sense of humor and remember that things aren’t always going to be perfect the first time two people get together, regardless of whether or not they’re virgins. Talk about what you like ahead of time (which can be a huge turn-on in and of itself). ...Then again, I take the same stance about one’s wedding night.

As for other gift ideas, decide based on his interests rather than on generic Valentine’s Day ideas. Cook his favorite meal, buy his favorite candy rather than a random sampler (or does he even like sweets?), watch his favorite movie together.

evil2's avatar

@eponymoushipster I was thinking the same thing, nothing says i love you like gaaccckkkk

eponymoushipster's avatar

@evil2 its not the noise that makes it special.

Haroot's avatar

Yeah sex is generally a last minute gift for majority of husbands/boyfriends.

Violet's avatar

How about the gift of not having to celebrate Valentines Day

FrankHebusSmith's avatar

If he’s worth your time anything you get/do with him will be enough. Just taking a walk somewhere, hanging out… making dinner with one another or getting dinner (even if it’s as cheap as applebees). If he’s a good guy, just being with you will make him happy.

Sex, is an added bonus. If you’re feeling truly into that idea, maybe put on some kind of special lingerie/underwear for the occasion….. we always appreciate that.

bigboss's avatar

@westy81585 a walk somewhere? wth, b*** better get me something nice…naaa just kidding .

as long as your not wearing any clothes im pretty sure he’ll never complain.

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