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[NSFW] Guys, how long can you go without "pleasing" yourself?

Asked by bigboss (990points) January 30th, 2010

If your not having regular relations with you S.O. how long can you go before being turned on enough to drop what your doing and start pulling on yourself?

do you feel this is unhealthy? why or why not?

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Self_Consuming_Cannibal's avatar

I can’t go without it, that’s why it takes me so long to reply because I’m typing with one hand. lol

bigboss's avatar

@Self_Consuming_Cannibal lmfaooooo same here. i find it annoying at times. i could be home bored and i either go eat something or flip out my iphone that has so many iphone compatible pornsites..i love this phone.

Shield_of_Achilles's avatar

Haven’t done anything like that since Dec. 29th

bigboss's avatar

@Shield_of_Achilles you my friend, have amazing willpower. if i go a couple of days without doing it. i start to get horny off of anything.

example : weightloss comercials with girls in bikini’s, walking down the street and seeing a woman with very tight pants on.

i hate living far away from my gf and only seeing her once a week.

DominicX's avatar

A few days or so. I kinda end up doing it either once a day or a few times a week. I’ve been told that’s not abnormal for an 18-year-old guy. I do have a boyfriend who lives 200 miles away from me, but he does the same thing. I don’t consider it unhealthy. We can also have webcam sex, but the opportunities for that are pretty damn rare. I really don’t get to see him in person for months at a time.

It’s not like I’m addicted to crack or anything. Two days in a row last week I was simply too busy and I didn’t really think about it at all. It’s not like I crave it and need to hurry back to a place where I can do it, it’s more “oh look, here’s an opportunity.”

I’m pretty much against the whole idea of masturbation being unhealthy unless it truly does consume your life and distracts you from other things.

Sarcasm's avatar

I have a relatively low sex drive. I don’t really keep track but I’m pretty sure it’s been about 2 months since I’ve done the solo deed. and quite a bit longer since I’ve done the duo deed.

Self_Consuming_Cannibal's avatar

@Sarcasm

Poor guy, I’m refering to the duo deed (or lack thereof).

jbfletcherfan's avatar

@DominicX Just make sure you’re alone, huh ? ’-)

DominicX's avatar

@jbfletcherfan

Seriously… lol :D

Shield_of_Achilles's avatar

@Self_Consuming_Cannibal @bigboss It’s the last time I had sex, so its pretty memorable, and since then I’ve been too out of it. sleep deprived, and angry to even get aroused.

It’s not will power. Trust me….

Self_Consuming_Cannibal's avatar

Well it sucks to be you. :-) Here, take a “great answer” and 5 lurve!

Shield_of_Achilles's avatar

XD
Thanks I guess

Self_Consuming_Cannibal's avatar

@You are quite welcome. You’ve earned it. :’-(

casheroo's avatar

This question fascinates me. Just my own theory..but it seems men desire sex more than women, but women masturbate (and make the time for it) much more frequently. This is only from a Fluther observation, because of the female masturbation thread a while back.

holden's avatar

girl here, just did it 3 times in the last hour. Somehow reading in bed always leads to that.

casheroo's avatar

@holden I had a session recently as well. Anything in bed leads to it lol

bigboss's avatar

@Shield_of_Achilles the question was for masturbation though lol.

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