How do most guys feel about prostate massage?

No finger is going up my ass no matter how good it feels….

Almost all adult males I talk to love it, and it gave them the biggest orgasms ever. I have heard from a few guys that it didn’t do anything major (but they/their partners may have been doing it wrong).
@FlutherMe you know there are special toys just for male prostates?

Yeah I think I’ll pass…

@FlutherMe see, we agree on something :) :)

I think if you do it right, genital massage could be very rewarding. But like a lot of things, if done incorrectly, is a very unpleasant experience.

I’d love to find a willing female to do it to me :-)

…was your username intentionally similar to Dr_C’s?

@HungryGuy lol!!!!

Not a fan although there must be something to it as those who do say it adds to their orgasms. I just can’t get used to something going up my ass.

Output only.

Depends on who is giving….

It grossed me out initially, but the beads were awesome. Guaranteed simultaneous orgasm, all she had to do is pull the string when she was ready.

Like they say at Taco Bell, I like to think outside the bun.

@chyna
No with women it’s definitely an input. :)

they feel like they shouldn’t want to have it done to them (if they consider themselves straight) and they feel like the must like it even if they don’t (if they consider themselves queer)

@Simone_De_Beauvoir You’re exactly right about that. I had to get past that reaction and then only with my lady.

Any man I know who has tried it likes it. A lot.

@augustlan same here

Of course, any sex that occurs between a naked woman and a naked man is straight sex, regardless what they do to each other!

@HungryGuy I don’t think sex has categories.

@Simone_De_Beauvoir – When did I say that sex has categories???

@HungryGuy when you called it straight.

@Simone_De_Beauvoir
Would you prefer normal and abnormal? Until homosexual, lesbian, transgender, transexual, or gender non specific became the catchwords, straight wasn’t even necessary. And no most people do not feel that they can swing in a genderless AC/DC anything goes with anyone type of orientation. Some of us just like women or men exclusively…now as far as you and your girlfriend at the same time, well that’s just a party in my book. as long as I’m the pinata…sometimes I just crack myself up. :)

@SeventhSense actually straight became the catchword at the beginning of 20th century and all those others you mention came into being much much later. And I wasn’t telling you to have sex in a way you don’t want – I was liberating your sex from restrictions.

^Yes but some want restrictions
must you tease me incessantly with your avatars? :P

@Simone_De_Beauvoir Your avatars, c’est magnifique!

@SeventhSense okay, have your restrictions.
in that world, you wouldn’t be able to have sex with me…because I don’t identify as a woman and all you want is ‘straight’ sex…tough noogies

@stranger_in_a_strange_land thank you, that’s why I change ‘em so often..there are so many great images out there to share with people

@Simone_De_Beauvoir and your taste in selecting them is superb.

@Simone_De_Beauvoir
because I don’t identify as a woman
Well I don’t care if you call yourself batgirl as long as you have the requisite working parts.
I’ll be the hulk. :0)

@SeventhSense how romantic…i’m swept off my feet
in all seriousness, it’s not at all like thinking you’re batgirl. it’s an actual serious thing in my life. and though I’m assuming by ‘working parts’ you mean vagina, the way I want to be had is probably not the way you’d have me.

LOL- your loss..
ok Wonder Woman :)

@SeventhSense no, the loss is yours. trust me.

@Simone_De_Beauvoir – What terms do you suggest, then? And what should a person who prefers a partner of the opposite sex call himself?

@HungryGuy I prefer being called by my name..if you need to use pronouns, use gender neutral ones like ze and hir…in terms of my gender identity, I use gender non-conformant or genderqueer…you should be called whatever you want to be called and I will respect that and not trivialize it with saying you’re ‘batgirl’ ‘hulk’ or ‘wonderwoman’. If you want to say you’re straight do so, but remember a century ago, the notion of heterosexuality was seen quite deviant to society so these things are arbitrary.

@Simone_De_Beauvoir – But I wasn’t speaking about you personally. And I consider “straight” to be a a synonym for “heterosexual.” Would you preferred that I had said, ”...any sex that occurs between a naked woman and a naked man is heterosexual sex…”? But whatever word we use, words are necessary to describe people’s sexual preferences.

BTW, this discussion reminds me of how the word for black people evolved. At one time, “colored people” was the non-offensive term (The NAACP actually contains the words “colored people” in its title). Then “colored people” became offensive, and the preferred word was “negro.” Then “negro” became offensive and “african american” became the mouthful-du-juor. Then “black” became the preferred word (it used to be considered offensive). Now, I often hear black people use the “n” word in reference to each other on mass transit.

@HungryGuy the racial term issue aside (I can discuss that into the night and we should really do it in some other thread) this is more about whether or not you think sex between particular individuals is ‘straight’ or not..it seems silly to me to name it so and I wanted to mention this…if you think this has a point in your life, by all means, use it and disagree with me.

@Simone_De_Beauvoir
Lighten up. I was just playing. For someone who is not into labels you sure are particular.
Being too PC is just silly

@SeventhSense what a cliche response…I tell you not to trivialize something and you go and do it again…lighten up…you lighten up, lol, I’m expressing what I always express…I am not into labels and I don’t think this discussion proves otherwise…and labeling something as PC or too PC is a cop-out, that’s all

@Simone_De_Beauvoir
you actually expect the world to adapt to terms like ze and hir but you can’t call them straight?..seems pretty silly to me
It’s easier to put on a pair of shoes than attempt cover the world with rubber.

@SeventhSense no I don’t expect this of the world, just the people that care to not hurt me

[mod says] Let’s get back to the topic, folks.

Anyway, as I was saying…

…any sex that occurs between a naked woman and a naked man is heterosexual sex, regardless what they do to each other!

@SeventhSense – Oh, I’m willing to be a little flexible, especially being as I’m an erotic horror writer. But I also agree that Simone needs to be more tolerant of other people’s sexual identity/orientation. I have as much right to identify myself as him/straight/heterosexual as Simone has to identify zeself/hirself as genderqueer/homosexual. Everyone has a right to be what they want to be :-)

And just so that this post is considered to be on-topic, the point to my comment above that started this whole debate is that prostate massage, in and of itself, isn’t homosexual sex. Homosexual sex is sex between members of the same sex; heterosexual sex is sex between members of the opposite sex; which has nothing whatsoever to do with what types of sexual activity they engage in, such as prostate massage. I.e., if a heterosexual couple engages in prostate massage, then it’s heterosexual sex. That was my point.

Sounds reasonable to me.

[mod says] All off-topic posts after the original [mod says] have been removed.
Even the harmless ones.

@augustlan – You mean we’re not even allowed to suggest that we continue the discussion under a new question where it will be on topic? I really don’t think you’re the one being reasonable here…

They removed asmonet’s hugs?