(nsfw) How to avoid "blowing it" too soon?

Think about my mother-in-law….or baseball.

Squeeze a few off in the bullpen before the big game. Decreases sensitivity.

I didn’t get the question. If you mean you want it to last longer on your first time, one trick that has worked for some people is to masturbate a couple of hours before the date. But that’s like saying “work before a race so you don’t go too fast”. Since it’s your first time, you can’t calculate how much you have to do, and whether what’s left is good enough for the girl.

So the only real advice is relax, explore, take it easy, remember to use a condom. One of the good things about sex is that it actually gets better over time. You’ll probably blow it, but you can always have a second round and maybe get it right that time. And there’s always tomorrow :)

If you’re partner knows you are a virgin, he/she (sorry but dont know) will probably be really gee’d up by that fact and won’t be expecting you to be “Johnny the Stud” on your first outing. I seriously doubt it would be a major factor in your lovemaking session and I hope you can stop worrying about it. As it’s your firsrt time, believe me when I say It wont be too long after the main performance you’ll be ready for an encore and this time you’ll be more ready willing and able to relish it. Sometimes it’s good just to get the first one out the way – the second one will be good or maybe even GOODER!

Good Luck!

Think of Judge Judy and Supreme Court Justice Ruth Ginsburgh wearing teddies in a lesbian 3some with you!

@Pretty_Lilly you want him to last, not lose his erection. geez.

Your going to ” blow it ” too soon your first time, but your going to be ready for more 5 minutes later so don’t worry about it.you’ll get get use to the felling and get better, but if your really worried then don’t be afraid to say ” hold on babe, give me a second let me fix my condom” or ” hey i want to switch positions and give your self sometime to recover” the more you stop before you climax the easier it will be to hold your own. the biggest way you can help your self is to stop putting so much pressure on your self, its suppossed to be a fun experiance

Yeah. just relax, try to feel more and think-and-fear less, and remember this is a bodily act, and your body knows exactly how and what to do. So, concentrate on what you feel, and have a good time. If you do that, the rest will be easy, such as stopping the right streams from bursting at the wrong time.

Don’t be sloppy. Have a good trusting motion. Don’t worry about how long the sex lasts. It’s the quality that matters

Tape a picture of Janet Reno on the head board. Look at the picture.

Don’t worry about it. Give her several by oral before you even start. This is love, not an athletic event. Use protection until you are sure this is an exclusive and long-term relationship.