(NSFW) new toys to bring into the bedroom?

Try a feather.

I’ve always been a fan of ice cubes. If you want to have fun with them, try making them with different drinks and colors. :-)

@Fiddle_Playing_Creole_Bastard and @Dan_DeColumna I have never tried either of those! Thank you : )

based on the ones you have, The riding crop seems glaringly absent. Who are they more for?

@Drgrafenbergmd I feel so selfish saying this They are meant for me. My bf is simple. I have fetishes. He’s very willing to do the whole bondage thing on me, but I’m not a fan of pain.

Vibrating rings for his junk feels good for both of you, its like a vibrator with the added benefit of it being real…plus they are really cheap to buy.

@Violet I would guess that more people use it lightly for teasing than beat the hell out of one another. Also you could invest in a bed with posts ^_^

@FishGutsDale like these?

@Drgrafenbergmd I would love a bed frame with posts!! I’ll have to bring it up to him

@Violet yep, thats them! They made for some fun i can tell ya haha. Also, they come with a little node on the ring to stimulate your special lady part…we shall call it beanie.

Also, about the “in the bedroom” part. Ever try skinny dipping late at night? Right time of year, right time of night, and right location, the water is actually warmer than the air and you get the effect of slipping into warm bath water. Very sensual in the moonlight and the slight risk of discovery adds a definite spice.

@FishGutsDale we have 3 or so of those, and they are super tight on him. The only one that fits is this one

Try different places in the house, the shower/bath can be lots of fun, soap, bubbles. Also the kitchen can be fun, access to the fridge and all those things to smear and lick off each other!
As for toys in the bedroom, how about ice pops? They taste great and the cold feels pretty good too!

I’ve always wanted to try this

@tragiclikebowie that is very interesting. I’m going to look around, and see if I can find one for less. Thank you for the suggestion. EDIT: Look what I found, when I was searching for the cone!

A buzz buzz buzzz lightyear vibrator. To the clitoris & beyond.Any man would get a woody watching those frolics.

Violet, if you haven’t tried the Lelo Nea then you are missing out on a whole lot of pleasure. Do yourself a favor and pony up a few $$ and start enjoying.

@TheLoneMonk Lelo Inez!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Oh my gosh, $7900. That is unreal! That just blew me away! Oh, but it is on sale! Loll

straw horse and a video cam corder?

Blindfolds and Pop Rocks is….well you just have to try it!

Try some suction fun – depends how sensitive your errogenous zones are!

link

Legos are always fun to play with

How about bed cuffs – where you are spread out like a star?
How about a proper leather whip?
Dog chain and leash?
Remote control butterfly vibrator?

vibrators, handcuffs, nipple suckers. nipple clamps, closepins,dick pumps, ice cubes. and porn

@tragiclikebowie – the cone scares me.

@Dan_DeColumna – Ice cubes are a lot of fun – you should try them in combination with candle wax. The heat of the wax, followed by the sudden cooling, from the ice cubes, makes for an incredible sensation.

Learn to make your own leather gear… Really!

Sartan’s (note the “R”) Working With Leather http://www.saroftreve.com/wwl/index.htm sells everything you need from tools (mallets, rivet punches) to hardware (rivets, buckles, and rings), to leather itself. It’s geared to kinksters, though once you learn the trade, you can buy your tools and leather stock from anywhere…

@LunaChick – Be careful with candles. Use only candles made with paraffin wax, not beeswax.

@Violet – You mean you don’t have a bedframe with posts? Shame on you! (just kidding) You can buy a cheap brass headboard and footboard that just bollts on to your existing base frame for about $200…

Oh, and always carry a Pocket Rocket with you in your purse…

@HungryGuy – for wax play, cheap and unscented is the way to go. :)

You could try out some Latex or PVC outfits for roll playing bedroom fun, if you have the whole house to yourself just imagine the fun you could have, there’s plenty of mail order companies on line these days! ;-)

@TheLoneMonk that looks like a regular vibrator? What makes it so special?
and @BoBo1946 you must have been looking at the gold one. The others were $72
@whiteroseman the pussy/clit pumps can actually stretch out the clit
@Dibley @slick44 I don’t like anything painful

@Violet Dog chain isn’t painful, just playful, and a good way of being on all fours.

@Dibley you are very correct (and @HungryGuy) I actually sat looking at a this site with my bf, and he picked out this, but we found and bought it for less on a different site

@Violet Do you work together?

@Dibley nope

@Violet Me and partner worked together and we bought a butterfly vibrator and he had the remote control. We worked on different floors, but the signal travelled and it was good. Maybe you could try it on a night out or something. He loved the idea of being in control and being able to turn me on whenever he wanted.

@Violet that sounds like a ton of fun! The butterfly is on my wish list.

Mink mitten anyone? I don’t know if they are commercially available. Ours was made out of a remnant (rejected) pelt. It might not have been good enough to go into a coat, but it feels divine.

If I get you into trouble, remember you asked the question. If your not into pain but want to try something pretty intense, try the ice. The trick is to take it to extremes without going too far and causing damage. Tie your boyfriend up and take a bag of crushed ice or ice cubes and ice down his cock and balls until they are completely chilled and shriveled. Then gently suck on his cock until he reaches erection and then ice him down again. The feeling he will get from the warm blood flowing in while your sucking, along with the warmth of your mouth is insane. You can also put a few cubes in his butt. That’s also quite insane. You take him thru 5 or 6 cycles of that and he’ll do anything you want. It would also work the other way around. He can chill you and warm you while your tied up. A piece of ice in the shape of a dildo would work better than ice cubes because he can pull it out completely. With the ice cubes you can’t get them out. You can also cool a metal rod in ice and use that. Don’t put it in the freezer, thats too cold and it will probably stick to you.

@Adirondackwannabe But be damned careful about frostbite on that delicate vaginal tissue. Definitely don’t put a metal object that’s been in the freezer there.

@stranger_in_a_strange_land Very Good point. Thats why the ice works better. And don’t use freezer pops or anything with sugar or other substances. Just plain water.

@Violet – yes, that looks like fun :-) And glad you found it for less, elsewhere. But like I said in another answer, you can save yourself a bundle by making your own BDSM gear. Yeah, the initial expense is pretty high buying all the leathercraft tools. But after that, all this stuff (except for the steel cages and furniture) is really dirt cheap to make. The mark-up is astronomical on sites like Huse and Extreme Restraints, just because they can.

@HungryGuy The WWL site you referenced has a lot of good info and his prices are quite competitive. Leatherworking is a fun hobby even without the BDSM aspect. Many professional leatherworkers are into kink but don’t advertise it to avoid reaction from their vanilla customers.

This a bit off-topic, but I feel that it’s important to emphasize safety in any activity that involves restraint or inflicting painful stimuli. Personally, I refuse to use locking devices. Any activity that involves striking, especially with a thin implement such as a strap, rod, etc I always “self-calibrate” (strike myself on the inner forearm or leg) with the device to remind myself of what it feels like to be struck with that device at that intensity. I then never hit harder than my “calibration”. As I rarely use impact in play, I find the self-reminder important. It’s important to me that my partner sees me do this, it’s a sacrifice that I make in assuring her safety. Also be absolutely sure that you have your safewords/signals straight, actually review them before each session.

@Violet really have never gotten into toys in the bedroom! Mainly because i have enough fun with the one given me and her! loll

But, a very good question!

Ive been told by a number of my friends that the “rabbit” is a sure thing for a best seller. but ive always found that imagination, role playing, massage etc has always seem to be more thoughtful in thinking of your partners needs , dislikes/likes, etc. plus, its FREE

Chocolate sauce is fun and tasty (:

Go to Extreme Restraints or Stockroom. I’ve went to both sites and have gotten great deals on things here.

Also you can go to Eden Fatasys, yes that is the spelling. The great thing about this site is that there is a point system. I take full advantage of it and they send you a nice catalog with your purchases.

I bought a strap on and I love pegging my bf. Also, since we love video games I bought a costume online that is fashioned like our favorite female video game character and we get into role play.