Has anyone had sexual relationships with sombody else besides your spouse? If yes why???

yes and i was horny…duh!

I doubt many would answer this. :)

no I never have but why do it. If you are not happy leave. I don’t understand why people cheat.

i just want to mention that this may or may not be against the rules of the relationship.

can you clarify your question—what exactly you’re interested in knowing about?

You mean before or after he was my spouse?

@scamp- that was my question, also. I have been with other men prior to and subsequent to, but not during my marriage.