NSFW -- Men, have you ever been in the presence of an absolutely irresistible woman?

No. There is no such thing. There are some women who are incredibly tempting, but each of us has within us the wherewithal to resist temptation.

My ex had this effect on me and several other men. She was a bitch, and she wasn’t even that attractive, but we all fell for her and couldn’t get passed it.

Uhm, No.

@ETpro Let me clarify. Asking about personal experience here. Have you encountered that incredibly tempting woman, regardless of what you did or did not do?

My ex wife, who left me for another man, was (in my eyes) the most incredibly sexy looking woman I have ever seen. She was also a true witchy woman who knew full well how to work it to wrap a man around her little finger. So yeah, I know the act. I wasn’t in a relationship back when I met her, so I didn’t see a reason to resist her charms. With the gift of 20/20 hindsight, I now know there was every reason.

But if she’s holding a bag of almond M&M’s, she might have a little power over me.

I’ve been around women that I’ve felt strongly about sure but we’ve got to get a hold on that impulse.

Right you are @Captain_Fantasy. Unfortunately some people think that she is the impulse to get a hold of.

I look at it like this. Instead of looking for the right person, I try to concentrate more on actually becoming the right person. I’ve found it turns the tables a bit.

I’ve been in the presence of a multitude of women I found almost irresistable. I married the only one I ever found who truly WAS irresistable… in every sense of the word.

is this limited to men only for a reason?

no girls in the tree house

@RealEyesRealizeRealLies I’m being quite serious. I’m curious as to why this question is aimed at men and if the OP has a reason behind it.

Well it’s probably because @plethora is about to fall into the clutches of a sinister dame. Not much a girl can do to help answer this question. In fact, not many a man that I know of would trust this question to a gal, no matter how she winks and nods at our weaknesses. Only the brooding dudes can share their experiences with this one.

But you’re free to intrude if you like. It is a public forum after all. You could also ask the same Q for the ladies and keep it ladies only. Either way is fine with me. Give it a go!

@RealEyesRealizeRealLies So any gay/queer/bi women can in no way add something to this discussion? Their life experiences can’t compare? Perhaps we’re too busy winking and nodding at you. (insert humorous face/tilde thing here).

I personally don’t require any advise from a gay/queer/bi woman about the type of woman this question is dealing with. Perhaps others do though. If you believe there are enough sexuality similarities between heterosexual men and homosexual women, then by all means give it a go.

You spelled “advice” wrong.

you are correct – much appreciated

This question went to crap about 8 threads up. Climb down off of your high horse please. There are plenty of women only questions and yes men chime in without acting like douchebags, feel free to answer any of those questions first. Cough, cough…..
I have been around women that make men melt. I work in an industry where sex sells. I’ve not fallin prey to a woman who is iresistable. For every amazing woman I’ve seen, clothed or naked there are another 100 behind her. Pure primal sense is not enough for me. Asthetics are not nearly enough either. To be an animal in bed she has to have a well equipped brain and a voice from heaven.
I am not including one night stands. Those are not about meeting someone iresistable those are just about getting laid.

@judochop Don’t misunderstand me. I was asking if the OP had a reason for asking about men specifically for either biological or sociological reasons. No need to jump on your own pony and place things upon my question that weren’t there.

ORLY??? Why not just pm him then?

Yes…and I got what I wanted…it was great!

My wife had that effect on me, but “turned it off” around other men. Meg could have the same effect on women (our relationship evolved into a three-way). I was absolutely loyal to her and Meghan showed her loyalty to me by not “turning on the charm” around other (straight) guys. Now Genevive (Megs fem lover/partner) and I are trying to muddle along in Megs absence, Meg passed away 14 weeks ago.

I have to say that I have run into several women that have given me the urge to just give into lust and jump on. They usually exude sexuality that is sooo strong just being in their presence is enough to sent one on fire. However, not being a caveman means I have to resist. Yes, my wife does possess this trait. To be honest, I think any woman can be capable of this…the power resides in the man. When it comes down to it, you’re just talking about lust. Lust is based on our individual desires and preferences in what qualifies as an attractive mate. Unfortunately, some guys are just not as selective as others!

I’d been around women who were like that before I met my wife. I knew that with my retarded social skills that I wouldn’t have a snowballs chance in hell, so I just avoided or ignored them. No point in getting my hormones in an uproar over an impossibility.

@gemiwing Nope, no reason at all, except that Im a man and was thinking like a man. Would love to hear the female answer…:) Sorry for being exclusionary (is that a word?)

Angelina Jolie me & silk sheets.Unfortunately I fucking woke up.Damn those realistic dreams.

Yes I have been. Frequently, in fact. She’s my sister-in-law. Stunning in every way. Flirty. Dirty. And Gay. Fortunately, my wife is just like her many ways.

Yes- met one working in a clothing store and almost did things with her but restrained myself to a kiss on the cheek.

but…

went back with the wife to do some shopping and she said wow she looks wonderful only for it to turn out to be a friend of the wife’s!

Took care of things in the dressing room right there!!!