What Qualities would make a woman irresistable?

I am a woman, but I have also loved women so I will take a bash at this question! When I was in my twenties, I think, I watched that movie “Fatal Attraction”. I thought Anne Archer the wife in the movie was irresistable. It was not her outward appearance but a deep sensuality she had, she was edible, for want of a better word. I think sensuality is everything and it is often quite rare today. When everyone is all fit, hard, and puffed up.

But overall I think a woman who is comfortable in her own skin, has her own life, her own style, knows who she is, is independent and fit. Is irresistible. But of course it is all relevant to each person. I don’t think one singular woman could be irresistible to all men.

If I answer this from the point of view of my own priorities, it may not be a useful answer, because I think I may be an outlier among men when it comes to what makes women attractive, but since it’s all I know, I’ll give it a shot.

She would have to be accomplished in some way: an artist, a musician, a lawyer, a banker, a politician – it doesn’t really matter, but she must be a person of some serious accomplishment. She would have to have the capacity to be emotionally available, and not be afraid of vulnerability. She would have to have a great sense of humor and a quick wit, she would have to be of sarcastic bent, a social progressive, stylish, physically active, enjoy sports in some fashion, and for me, anyway, she would probably have to be post-menopausal before I was interested in her, because women younger than that are not really appropriate for men of my age.

A woman who is always smiling and enjoying herself.

E – qualities.Knowing that the relationship is a two way street, give & take.Works fine for me.

(NSFW) Lack of a gag reflex :-p

You’re aware you can’t be serious with this question right? Unless you don’t know that these six billion plus people on the earth all have different ideas of an irresistable woman or man…....I guess the only thing that is universal is that the woman have a vagina, but even some men don’t like that lol.

these are my faves:
– confidence
– intelligence
– independence
– sincerity
– joy
– hotniss

You never get a second chance to make a first impression. i apply this old saying to your question.

First and foremost is a womans outward appearance. her hair is stylish, she takes care of her fingernails, she wears just the right amount of makeup, earrings, is clean, wears nice up to date clothes, has a great personality, smiles and laughs a lot, is loving and cares for other people and their feelings.

Hey, i just described my wife.

Come on guys tell the truth:

Good, healthy body
No diseases
Smooth skin
Smiling pleasant personality
Intelligence
Intimacy- giving and receiving
Good job
No kids or parents

(Not necessarily in that order.)
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Kind, selfless, non-whiny, disciplined, flexible, non-judgmental, honest, loyal, caring.

On a physical level she must smell good – whether it’s from perfume (small amount – I don’t want to smell you from more than a few feet away – excessive perfume is a huge turn off) or maybe just her bathing routine (scented body wash or whatever). A pleasant scent drives me wild! Smooth skin is also very important – nasty dry cracked skin is not sexy whatsoever.

For me personally, I’d go for a mature (post 35 to 45year old) lady, long dark brown hair, petite Body, nice teeth, nails, good job, own car, home, money who only wanted to see me weekends, oh & she’d have to smell real good too (chanel) & love to cook, drink beer & well!! Play nurse! :-)

I’ve heard silence is….but I didn’t listen ;)

Awesome at Call of Duty and of course be attractive to me.

an IQ above 120 can’t hurt anyone’s attractiveness.

I am borrowing from @dpworkin here whose description is very close to my own, with a couple of changes.

She must be a person of some accomplishment, emotionally available, and not afraid of vulnerability. She would be intelligent and have a great sense of humor and a quick wit, with a sarcastic bent, stylish, physically active, and for me, anyway, she would probably have to be post-menopausal or close to it, because women younger than that are not really appropriate for men my age.

I would add a couple of things. Very short would not work. I prefer taller. Slim is good, but not skinny. Sensual as described by @Just_Justine, “sensuality is everything and it is often quite rare today. When everyone is all fit, hard, and puffed up.”

@FutureMemory On a physical level she must smell good – whether it’s from perfume (small amount – I don’t want to smell her from more than a few feet away – excessive perfume is a huge turn off) or maybe just her bathing routine (scented body wash or whatever). A pleasant scent drives me wild! Smooth skin is also very very important.

I usually prefer the coloring of a brunette (not the white white skin of a blond or a person with very black hair), but, as for hair, I am also a fan of blonde highlights or blonde from a bottle.

Finally, someone of my spiritual and political bent…...and with a high libido.

I believe what makes a woman irresistable is when she is connected with her own beauty, attractiveness and worthfulness. Then, she naturally glows.
To feel that way as a woman: attractive, worthful and connected to the deep beauty of yourself, with no relation to what “parameters” you fit into or don’t: is an art.
It’s called Femininity

@Marva, well said. That’d be my wife. I’m a lucky guy.

@stevenb Thank you :)

- confident
– trustworthy
– mind of her own
– sense of humor
– doesn’t follow trends
– doesn’t need male approval to feel good about herself
– dresses nicely, not sluttish
– willing to question things like established political doctrines (conservative AND liberal)
– open minded

and lastly, long hair and a great butt. Physical traits are the least important to me, but those are two that I like a lot.

radiance
creativity
humility
serenity
imperfect
and above all passion

2nd Answer: i just left out the most important answer of all.

A pregnant woman glows with beauty. this is probably the healthiest time in a womans life.

@Marva You nailed the first one of my big three. The other two are intelligence and spirit. If I didn’t want the feminine side of women, I’d go bisexual and double my odds of getting lucky when I was dating.

Intelligence, confidence, an “I don’t give a fuck” attitude when it comes to superficial shit.

For me?

Intelligence, mystery, a sense of adventure and even danger, and bookishness. Oh, and raven-black or sandy blonde hair plus excellent curves help too. I have a bit of a pinup/femme fatale fetish.

A hinged mandible. “Contortionist” on the resume doesn’t hurt, either. And total unfamiliarity with rulers. Not necessarily in that order.

She must love dogs, sushi, and, well… that’s about it.

I’d like to hear her singing in the morning

Intelligence, sensuality, confidence, fun, witty

@stardust YES!!!

She isn’t a chatterbox. She doesn’t gossip. And she is like a Hoover… i.e. she can suck the chrome off a trailer hitch!

@phillis total unfamiliarity with rulers.

I laughed out loud.

@worriedguy ; Your answer plus kinkiness describes my wife!

Slim
Firm
Glossy hair
Glowing skin, little to no makeup
Smooth, rich voice
Smiling
Intelligent
Patient
Humorous
Compassionate
Reasonable
Generous
Trusting
Adaptable
Emotionally open
Appreciative
Considerate
Graceful

@Neizvestnaya ; Randiness could be added to yours!

@phil196662
Bad me, I take randiness as a given!

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