If you had to Choose between a hot girl with a good personality or a not bad girl with a great personality which would you choose

to have a lasting relationship, the great personality would be better.
looks fade, personalities are a bit more static.

great personality. I lucked out with both. Are you reading sweetheart? :D

i will sleep on it

gr8 personality ftw

This question can be asked 87324847490101 different ways and the answer will always be the same from any sane, mature, male.

This has been asked… exactly.. before…. <.<

I used to face the same problem, go with the great personality

ur doing this out of curiosity or just to see how many hits u get?

i guess i will go wit great personality

out of curiosity

I’d choose the hot girl with the good personality.

say goodbye to your money then lightbringer.

Even personality doesn’t make them a potential choice. The connection and who they are have them either occur as a unique opportunity, or not. Personality is just part of who they are, and is often just how they’re acting at the time for whatever reason.

how do you judge personality then?
the way i always take it when people say “she has a great personality” is either: “I really like her” “We’re really compatible” or “We get along, really well.”
No one has a perfect personality, its just the certain type that we prefer.

If I find myself judging someone’s personality, I let go and take other perspectives to get a more authentic sense of who they really are as a person. Though, people do have habitual ways of being, and I can certainly appreciate or get upset by those – I just won’t judge them as a whole person for them, unless I’m stuck in my own automatic thinking at the time (which happens, of course – it’s an automatic behavior).

Or if all I can see is one persona, like an Internet persona that is only showing me one facet that annoys me – sometimes I react to the persona because that’s all there is in that medium.