@Rangie “Zaku, Yes everyone does have the right to choose whatever they want all of the time. But at what cost? Or do you think there is a cost?”
Costs exist only within a human concept such as an economic system or moral code, which are inventions of humans and societies. It’s not a matter of absolute truth. So an answer to this will really be a statement of a social or legal group’s positions, or of an individual’s. So I take this question as you asking what my personal feelings are about it.
My personal feelings go something like this: There is a massive amount of death, disease and suffering in the world. I feel compassion for this, and value it in proportion to the capacity of the sufferer to suffer, and of their potential for good if their suffering were relieved. I don’t see death itself as necessarily something involving a lot of suffering, particularly for something like an embryo, fetus, or even a very young born child – the persona that is suffering has very little to suffer about or understand as suffering, as best I can tell. A healthy pregnant woman with the prospect of a life of her own, it seems to me has a huge capacity for a wide range of either suffering or good, which being forced to raise a child she doesn’t want, could likely make a huge difference about. Further, since most women have very strong maternal feelings, a woman who would make a choice to abort a pregnancy, well, unless she is very crazy or something, I think it’s preposterous and horrible for anyone to assume they have more right than her to make such a decision.
On the other hand, I also believe in the rights of humans and societies to form their own distinct and diverse moral codes. Seeing how many people are aligned so strongly against abortion, I think they should be allowed to form communities and laws within them that exclude and even illegalize abortion.
For the same reason, even without my personal feelings about the issue in question, I think too there need to be communities where abortion is legal.
In a huge democracy such as the USA, I think it’s clearly wrong for either side of the argument to presume to coerce the other side to live according to their moral code.
However there are some issues where some sides essentially believe that they are right in coercing the other side into illegitimacy, and/or they feel justifiably that their strongly-held beliefs or even social groups are threatened by the opposing groups.
To me, that looks like something where humans need to learn how and when to back off and live in different communities with different laws, instead of trying to force everyone to live under the same set of agreements, or even to have to live near people whose ways of life are violent towards each other.