{NSFW} Men losing virginity and premature ejaculation?

It will be short and awkward. It’s best to get it over with and improve from there.

There are always exceptions, of course, but nothing to count on. A guy’s brain is wired to spread its seed, and the sexual frustration of a teenage boy all pent up is bound to be released. Quickly. Wear a condom.

@zophu is right! Yes!! WEAR A CONDOM.

A man might be able to pull off his first time like a true stallion, but there’s nothing wrong with ponying up before the rodeo to help himself out a little :)

I think I lasted about one minute. I was so embarrassed.

What are those things? Flesh lights? Theyre like.. faux vaginas?
Get one of those and practice. ;P

I didn’t come at all, it went on until she became sore (we were both virgins) I think the pressure and all the build up made it too difficult for me to relax and let go, I was so worried about so many things, like pregnancy, whether she’d orgasm (of course she didn’t)
etc. Looking back on it, it all seems a bit silly.

xx

erm… going on my own personal experience, the first time took me ages, the hand gets the job done much faster. if anything its the opposite, it takes less the more practice i got.

@EdMayhew Sooo… are you seeing anyone.. orr…? LOL

@meagan

It’s more of an emotional thing than physical. But practice with something other than your own hand couldn’t hurt.

The first time is always awkward! :-/
I never felt a thing, she was a lot older than me & I was pretty wasted on cider, I do remember throwing up though! :-/

@meagan Haha, yes, I’m pursuing a monogamous relationship with fluther (though I might be having an affair with facebook – cos I’m such a player)

I went about 15 minutes, and finally had to think about an ex gf to finally come.
All sex is great, but this was the worst experience for me. I felt like i had sold out my dreams.

@EdMayhew The same thing happened to me. I was just too nervous really and eventually we sorta just tired ourselves out. Also was afraid of my parents coming home.

@EdMayhew haha. what a dog!

@LeotCol It’s a surprise all the movies portray the whole ‘jizz in pants before you’ve even started’ thing, I don’t think it really happens that much. I had the parents thing too, but they were in the house, (she was a french exchange sleeping in the room next to mine) another interesting thing about it actually is that whilst I was scared of my parents finding out, we fell asleep together one night after about a week of sneaking around, my mum came in the next morning and told us to get up for school – no awkward sex talk or anything.

@meagan yeah, you know it

Well, let’s just start out by saying my first time was terrible.

My boyfriend’s first time was with me, and yep it was a bit awkward but kinda…cute at the same time? Haha he was doing just fine…if only Mama didn’t come home so quick! >.< If she didn’t show up I doubt it would have been too quick, ya know?

@EdMayhew Haha, so naughty! I’d only ever heard of things like that with exchange students in movies! :P

Ed, you’re a lucky son of a gun. I wish I had a foreign exchange student at my house :/

- Back to the Q: I didn’t do too bad my first time. She was my first, I wasn’t her first, and we both came. It was just dandy. The first time is different for everybody.

A very good guy friend of mine just lost his virginity, and he lasted a very long time.

It’s either one extreme or the other. I think it depends on if the horn can overcome your nerves.

First time, that thing came out of my pants “spitting“Tried to tell “him” to be patient but the immature fucker wouldn’t listen.He’s learned to take his time since though although he is very excitable still.

Well I don’t know what the average is, but if his first time is while he is still young and he puts a condom on, he probably will last past the first orgasm anyway.