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What ways to tell if a women is looking at a guy while with her boyfriend?

Asked by amckee (4points) April 3rd, 2010

my girlfriend looks guys up and down, cant keep eye contact eyes always stray to the person she is looking at while trying to maintain eye contact, and cars with nice rims that are expensive she follows the car with her eyes trying not to turn her head…. and deny it everytime even if im looking right at her…..

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rahm_sahriv's avatar

No different than guys who admire a pretty woman even if they are married or with someone. You can look all you want but don’t touch….

If it bothers you, you need to talk to her about it. If she continues to do it as blatantly as you describe, find yourself another woman if it bothers you this much.

CyanoticWasp's avatar

Hey, welcome to Fluther and all, but…

People look at other people. If you want a girlfriend who won’t ever look at another man, then find a blind one. They’re out there.

Of course, then you’d run the risk that she would listen to voices that she finds pleasant, or complimentary words, or men who, perhaps trust her a bit and don’t obsess over innocent things that people do in the company of other people.

So my real and honest advice is just to grow up, grow a pair, and trust the girl until you find that she is objectively not trustworthy, and then drop her.

chyna's avatar

I went out on a first date with a guy that looked at every woman that walked in the restaurant, and I mean looked them up and down to the point where he couldn’t keep up with our conversation. It was our last date also. If someone can’t be courteous enough to get to know me on a first date, he doesn’t deserve to get to know me. And he did ask me out several times after that.

Ludy's avatar

I got to be honest, I used to be like that, shame on me! But honestly I admit I did it for attention, usually the guys that I’d look at would be looking at me too, confirming that we liked each other,why? ‘cause I wasn’t getting that kind of attention from my ex-boyfriend. Now my fiance treats me so so good and fulfills me in every way that I no longer need to do that, don’t need to look for that attention even tough guys keep looking at me, I now respect my relationship and don’t look back. Looking in a way that is disrespectfull, is cheating to me!

dpworkin's avatar

@CyanoticWasp my girlfriend is blind, but she still knows when there are cute men around, and she expresses her natural interest, so I’m afraid this guy is shit out of luck. He may have to grow up and get used to it.

davidbetterman's avatar

Her nipples get extremely hard…

Ludy's avatar

what are you talking about?

davidbetterman's avatar

What ways to tell if a women is looking at a guy while with her boyfriend?”

What are you talking about?

Freedom_Issues's avatar

Look at her and see where her eyes are going?? Seriously bud.

Ludy's avatar

Im just saying what does that has to do with it, I personally don’t think is true

davidbetterman's avatar

@Ludy What isn’t true? That her nipples get hard looking at the other guy?

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