Do you only have orgasms at will, with the proper stimulus? Do they ever sneak up on you? Is this okay?

LOL What a question! :)

I still remember my first orgasm. I was just 9 or so. I even remember the dream and the girl in the dream…and while I was dreaming the darn thing just started going off…WOW!!! Was that ever great. I had no idea what had happened, but I knew it was good.
Later, in my 20s, the girls loved me because it would take up to 45 minutes to orgasm!

Man this has been a fun life! And it still isn’t over!

But no more sneaking up on me.

I’ve definitely had orgasms in my dreams. Well, it was the feeling of an orgasm, I’m not sure if I was actually having one, but it’s a possibility.

I have a friend who has four children and had an orgasm while giving birth to each one of them.
I have another friend who’s had multiple orgasms while on roller coasters.

Unfortunately for me, I need clitoral stimulation, but not necessarily penetration in order to have one.
They don’t sneak up on me, but I wish they did. I like surprises.

Sometimes when I hear a really good classical piece, such as “Pines of Rome” by Respighi, I jizz in my pants…

But seriously, I’ve had them while dreaming before…a.k.a wet dreams. Most guys experience those during puberty. Haven’t had one in a while, though. That was mostly when I was younger. They could be sneaky sometimes, but I can’t say I couldn’t see them coming most of the time; the dreams were almost always about something sexual involving another boy. Certainly unstimulated by physical means, but not by mental means.

Never heard of any of those other things; sounds very strange to me, but I suppose anything’s possible. Somehow I think it would be harder for a guy to have a spontaneous orgasm than for a woman.

Hmmm, I cant say I recall ever having a suprise orgasm….

Would be nice to have one in the queue at the bank, just a small withdrawal you understand.Would relieve the boredom for a moment anyway.

I have had the odd orgasm whilst dreaming but I haven’t ever had an orgasm whilst walking round Tesco’s if that’s what you mean! However, I have had an orgasm sneak up on me during a kiss with my boyfriend and, whilst it was a fairly passionate kiss, there was no touching of anything else going on so it was a bit of a nice surprise!

@Leanne1986 You see, thats where you’ve been going wrong…. you need to walk around Waitrose!

Aside from dreaming them, I’ve not had any sneaker-uppers. Man, I’m missing out.

@JeffVader Haha…I can’t afford to step foot in Waitrose let alone buy anything from there, I don’t care how orgasmic people claim their food to be!!!

Who is this Will? He must be one helluva lover.

I’ve never had any surprise orgasms, HOWEVER there have been maybe 10 times in my life where something in my brain gives me a feeling down there like if I were to touch myself at all I would instantly have an orgasm. Unfortunately in all these situations I’m in a car with my mom, or on a rollercoaster…seriously, they happen at the oddest times and it is always unfortunate that I can’t finish such a pleasant thought.

@Vunessuh I can stop by unannounced… * wink wink *

@bob_ Like I said, I like surprises…

Dreams… and once when I was breast feeding.

Definitely had a few ‘surprise’ ones when dreaming.
Also a steamy kiss did it once. Kind of embarrassing as we were standing in the middle of Marks and Spencers…hehe