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Does he have any interests in me? or is it just me assuming things...?

Asked by purplepio (8points) April 10th, 2010

First and foremost, I’m sorry if I wrote too long.. because I want to see an accurate opinion as I don’t know how to judge them myself. Thank you in advance :)

There’s this guy whom I just recently notice. I didn’t know his existence at first, but one day I was walking behind him talking with my friend and this guy keeps on turning his head to the back and keeps on looking at me. I thought he was someone that I knew but nope I’ve never seen him before. Then I completely forgot about this incident due to spring break, and one day when the school starts again, I was talking to my ‘boss’ discussing about some lab stuff in his office (my boss is a grad student and that guy is also a grad student so their office are in the same room), this guy saw me and suddenly stood up from his desk and walked towards the desk beside where me and my boss were talking, and while he was approaching, I caught him looking at me once. I didn’t look at him but you know how we can still see what people were doing on the side without even looking at them.

Then a few days after that whenever I saw him, I always caught him looking at me whenever I went to my boss’s office, and also during the meeting and whenever I see him. But all this while I pretended that I didn’t know he was looking at me – and I guess he doesn’t know that I already know he was looking at me. But one day, he came over to our undergrad’s place to tidy up some stuff (told by his supervisor), and then I caught him looking at me while his supervisor was talking to him. This time our eyes met and I quickly look away. There were a couple of times this type of situation repeats, but I always look away after our eyes met. Because I’m too shy to look back. But a few days ago, I was talking to my friends and I heard someone walked pass, and you know how people automatically turn to see who is it when somebody walked by. And I saw him looking towards me, but he quickly look away when I turned my head towards him.

Therefore, I’m not sure if he has any interests in me or if it was just me that’s assuming things. Because nothing has ever happened between us, I don’t even know who he is, what his name is and I guess the same thing goes for him. It’s just that we are glancing at each other. I’m a really shy type of person so I don’t know what to do.

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10 Answers

lucillelucillelucille's avatar

Ask him out for a coffee.I dare you :)

thriftymaid's avatar

You joined this site to talk to us about nothing more than you and guy looking at each other? One of you has to open your mouth and speak; it might as well be you.

slick44's avatar

Speak up!

cyn's avatar

He likes you. I had this happened to me and I seriously regret not saying that to him. He told me he loved me, but I just ignored him. I thought he was lying. I’ll tell you this- he wasn’t. You think a girl doesn’t know when a guy likes her? She does. I still see him glancing at me and it’s unique and different. I was too shy to actually ask him if he really like me.. I am a fool. Don’t let this happen to you.

Nullo's avatar

* takes a drink *
He certainly could be interested in you; people tend not to look at things that they do not enjoy looking at.
I’m gonna second @lucillelucillelucille‘s dare.

unique's avatar

second and third glances?! girl…say “hi”.

jrpowell's avatar

Maybe he is shy. Really, guys won’t freak out if the girl asks us out. Someone has to make the first move. It seems silly to assume that it will be him. One of you has to deal with the possibility of rejection.

john65pennington's avatar

Listen to the words of the song Just One Look. it might give you insight as to how to handle your situation.

kyanblue's avatar

I am in that guy’s position.
He likes you.
Talk to him.

flightdelayed's avatar

You should trust your initial gut feeling here. If there is enough of this going on to ask a descriptive question, then its safe to assume, yes. he’s checking you out. and he’s probably thinking the same exact thing you are, cause you obviously keep checking him out. start a convo, say hi, and good luck

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