NSFW Have you ever had a sexual encounter with the same sex, and if so, how was it?

Uh. Most people have sexual encounters with the opposite sex. That tends to be how procreation works.

@MrItty Brilliant, thanks for the observation!

I have had a threesome with a boyfriend of mine and my best friend. i have also just been with my best friend many times. Its quite a turn on.

Don’t do what you don’t feel comfortable with. It doesn’t make you homophobic or a party pooper. If your ex had truly loved you he would not have put you in a situation that made you feel uncomfortable or most certainly would have called the thing off once he saw that you were, not have invited another guy.

If the woman was any kind of friend, she would still be your friend.

Threesomes shouldn’t just be sprung on someone, regardless of the gender of the third party. It should be something discussed before and all parties should be comfortable.

As for personal experience I have had a couple of threesomes, some involving another guy and some involving another female. I have enjoyed them all. That doesn’t mean that you should have enjoyed it- we are all wired differently.

A friend of mine had.
When he was around eleven, twelve years old, i believe.
I guess it was just experimenting.

@rahm_sahriv It was a love relationship. He was a re bound and we just had a purly sexually relationship. I think he thought I would be up for a bit of, well, whatever, but I wasn’t. I prefer one on one, with a man.

My first sexual experience was with a my best friend, who happened to be a girl.. We got really drunk (my first time being drunk) and she went down on me. I couldn’t return the favour bc she had her period. And she was also the one who tought me how to kiss, bc there was a guy I liked but I was scared to kiss him bc I never kissed anyone before. So she tought me, so I’d know what I was doing.

@whyigottajoin Wow, what an answer.

Good god ladies. Go easy on us.

@Dibley Im sure it’s what you wanted to hear tough =P Hope you feel better now xx

No…I never would either. But women with women…now that’s something to marvel at.

I tried it. It was interesting. To me, though, it wasn’t sexy. I’m attracted to women.

@whyigottajoin and you?

All my sexual encounters have been with the same sex. The female sex.

@Dibley Idk I’m having a sucky day too. No bf that hugs me and tells me he’ll miss me. Im gonna private message you hold on a sec.

@whyigottajoin I think that was the answer everybody wanted to hear :)

Once, when I was about 15 I recieved a bj unexpectedly….. I was tripping my arse off though & it really wasn’t until a day or so later that I put 2&2 together about what had happened.

@JeffVader Oh my god, you dark horse you!

@Dibley Hahaha, thank goodness he didnt say that to me :)
Indeed, I did say I’ve changed alot since my wild teens.

I fucked a tomboy once,she was fucking hilarious in her dungarees & hard hat.

@JeffVader Huh, you’re a guy and a guy gave you your first bj? =P

@JeffVader You sure did. ;-)

@whyigottajoin Not my first ever…... I spose it was probably my first on acid. & at least he wasn’t my best friend or anything, that would have been rather awkward.

@JeffVader lol! Okay I get it.. =P Well the girl who I mentioned was my best friend and it didn’t make things akward or anything. We only became more close friends. We kinda drifted apart tho when she started a school in a different city.

@whyigottajoin Heh, that’s good, the two of you must have been pretty tight to begin with. Sadly my school was filled with mindless bigots who thought nothing of going out on a Friday for abit of Gay-bashing. I certainly couldn’t have mentioned it without becoming a social pariah…. I mean, I did discuss it with him but not with anyone else.

Hrm. After the question text was changed, my first answer could now be read as being homophobic and rude as all hell. That’s no good. For those just reading, @Dibley originally typo’d and said “with the opposite sex”. That’s where my answer came from.

Not that long ago actually, a party in Brighton, so naturally everyone got really drunk and there were a few joints being passed around, ended up making out with a girl I’d only met that night. I remember it fairly clearly despite the ahem ‘haze’, but it didn’t seem odd to me at the time, just one of those things that happens.
Don’t find myself attracted to the same sex though. They’re too fun to bitch about haha

oh no….I’m all about the girls!

I had a couple experiences with other woman. I was drunk, stupid, and attention seeking. I regretted it when I sobered up. Woman just don’t appeal to me.

Have I ever…

Maybe a more relevant twist on the question for me would be if I have ever had sexual encounters with the opposite sex. I’ve kissed girls before (usually at parties), I’ve danced dirty with girls, but that’s about as far as I’ve gone. And these were with girls who knew that I was gay. (Although I did the same things before they knew, but I never pretended that I was interested in them. It’s just that dirty dancing feels good no matter whom you do it with, going to be honest…)

I’ve had a few girls “come on” to me before and I just pleasantly refuse. Girls flirt with me sometimes too, but again, I don’t let it go very far. I don’t want to trick people into thinking I’m straight.

No, never. I accidentally kissed a man on the lips once and found it disgusting. I also once hired a transvestite prostitute thinking it was a woman, but I couldn’t get turned on, without really knowing why. Something felt wrong. And then I discovered what it was. So I’m pretty strict about my preferences.

As I’ve said elsewhere, I can understand (or at least imagine) the notion of homosexuality (lesbians simply have the same taste as me and gay men have the same taste as straight women), but I really can’t start to imagine what it feels like to be bisexual. I’ve had it explained to me, but even though I can accept the theoretical basis of the argument, I simply can’t imagine myself ever getting turned on by someone who is not a woman.

@DominicX…and what’s that you’re kissing in the picture, huh? Because if that’s a guy, then I’m gay too! :P

Yes, in my teenage years I had a few “encounters” with a girl (a good friend of mine). I hadn’t yet been with a guy so I learnt a lot with her. We messed around every so often for a couple of years although it was never what you would call a relationship, just horniness! It was fun but I have to admit, now that I have a certain amount of experience with men and women, I do prefer being with a man or more specifically my man!

I’ve slept with many women and some were good experiences and others were not – it’s people dependent and not sex dependent, to me. And I’m sorry your ex used you in such a way – some guys seem to think women exist for their viewing pleasure and they’re wrong.