@andrew
I wish you well with that. I appreciate your concern and interest in addressing the issue. I’m pleased you even see it as a valid issue. That gives reason for hope.
Unfortunately, I believe you are going about it in the wrong way. I know this is your baby. I know you want it to work for everyone, and be efficient at the same time. But in that process of figuring it out, consider that you may be going snow blind. You may be over thinking things.
I will give my unsolicited opinion. Take it for what it’s worth. The worth is intended to help.
Trust People to moderate themselves.
If a question is confusing, rude, ill formed, poorly conceived… Trust Your Members to be intelligent enough to decide for themselves if they wish to answer, ignore, or make suggestions on how to communicate better.
You don’t really want to baby sit us… do you?
We don’t really want a baby sitter… do we?
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Be there to protect us from Trolls and Hateful Insults. Trust Your Members to assist in pointing this out to you. Trust Your Members to care for the garden you built as if it were their very own.
Consistently, the most mature people on this site, over and over again say the same things about being able to pass over questions that they are uninterested in. It’s the same way we handle real life. Yet when our own questions are removed, and questions about “Bottled Farts” remain, it forces us wonder what this site is evolving into.
Trust Your Legacy Members to help new members acclimate themselves to this environment… this Fluther climate.
Acclimate
to adapt to a new temperature, altitude, climate, environment, or situation
Sarcasm is a fact of life. It’s not the same as being Rude or Insulting. Sarcasm is appreciated amongst friends. It can foster creativity and levity. Sarcasm lets people express themselves as individuals and encourages others to do the same. Sarcasm is a tool of wit and intelligence. Sarcasm is a powerful device for revealing those who take things too personally. And those are the folks you need to be concerned about. Those who insist upon everyone adhering to their narrow viewpoints.
Protect Your Members from the Rude and Hateful. Trust Your Members to do the rest.
You don’t need confusing categories to keep everyone happy. Don’t over think this beautiful environment. You don’t need heavy moderation to eat resources and null creativity of expression. It wobbles on the wire of censorship.
Trust Your Members and encourage people to be real people. That’s what real people want.