Is this person right for me?

It wouldn’t matter to me how much I liked her, because the distance is too far. My best relationships occur when me and my S/O are best friends, and that means being very close. I’d just keep on lookin’.

At this point I think you’re thinking too far ahead. If you like her and you like spending time with her, don’t worry if she doesn’t fit the mold of previous girlfriends. You guys click for a reason, even if you don’t know why. ;)

I’d say, since this is a new relationship for you, to just take each day (or weekend) as it comes and see how it works out. At a certain point you will figure out if she’s right for you or not—if she isn’t, the distance will quickly become a stress point in your relationship, or other things will cause tension. If she is, things will work out, disputes will be resolved, and everything will be all right.

You will know…give it some time. Wait and see what happens. Enjoy the ride.

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have you checked out the cuties on your block?

No. End it now before it gets more serious.

Are you in a permenant situation where you live? My best friend had a long distance relationship and eventually they were able to move in together. That’s a different situation, of course, but it’s possible it could work.

If you are an adult two hours away is not a big problem. If not, it may be a serious obstacle for you, but seeing her on the weekends is really enough if you are still in high school. Just enjoy it when you can see her and you can talk on the phone during the week.

Of course it is right to feel this way. It may be difficult seeing this girl, but if you like her so much, and are happy travelling two hours to meet up with her, then go for it!

If the relationship is really worth it than I don’t see what is the problem. So long as you both take turns visiting each other, so neither of you feel your carrying the responsibility of making the relationship work on just one person.

The 2 hour drive is easy enough to overcome, it is that desire to “want to try to make her happy in anyway possible way” that IMO sounds a bit obsessive.

Sounds like Cupid has hit you smack between your eyes with this girl. and, you know what i mean. your age may or may not play a big part in any further relations with her. like, two hours away and no wheels to see her? thats a drag. if you are a motor vehicle owner, then two hours is not a bad drive to be with her. i did this many years ago with a girl that moved 4hours away. i made the trips and wore out my car and two sets of tires. each situation is different and you now have to evaluate your situation with her. if she really lights your fire, then nothing on earth is going to keep you from being with her. tough decision here. only you have the answers. john

Two hours away isn’t a big deal. Many people end up with an average daily commute of near two hours roundtrip when they work so this amount of time to invest in a person you may want to partner up with?

If you want to try and make her happy this sounds like love to me. I’d go for it. Distance is Nothing when love is involved.