@gailcalled ROFL!!! I now know what a dangling participle is!!! Thank you ever so much! I actually found this sentence in a Snopes description (description part of the false story, not on the part of the owners). It was about a guy who got attacked by a dog. The owner’s defense was that the guy was in their yard. Accordingly I saw the following: “The dog was chained and in the back yard, as was the plaintiff.” I rolled!
@JLeslie In reference to the example you gave: The proper way to say the sentence is “between you and me.” I know this not because I can give you the “legal” reason, but simply because if you take the second party out (‘you’) and were just referring to yourself, you would say ”...between me.” In that example, for it to make sense, you’d have to add some dangling portable orthanic like, “The table was between me and….” That’s also how I know when to properly use ‘I’ or ‘me,’ as in “They had James and me run to the store,” v “James and I to ran to the store.’ In taking the final college exam to get my teaching certificate, I’d say out of 100 people, only 5 of us got it right. But, of the ones the 5 of us talked to, those people now know WHEN to use ‘I’ v ‘me,’ and it’s just that simple. No amount of diagramming or confusing words can take the place of simple explanations, which is what is missing in English, IMO. How can 100 people graduate college and not know that simple thing??
Also, the other day I learned what a “reflexive verb” is. Well, it’s like, “I saw myself in the mirror,” or, “He saw himself in the mirror.” (The reflexive verbs are ‘myself’ and ‘himself.’) WTH does ‘reflexive’ have to do with a darn thing in that case? So, I changed the pronunciation in my head just a bit, and to myself I call them ”reflective” verbs. And that’s what I teach my students, and now I’ll never forget. And what does it matter if I know what a reflexive verb is, anyways???
@jfos I haveta get to work here in a moment, so I’ll dig a little deeper into your answer this evening.
I don’t have time to address each of you (but I will after work) but my main point is, teaching English yet letting a kid slide on structure and form when it comes to actually writing a sentence is a total waste of time. I can’t figure how in the world any kid could have graduated from High School, yet actually writes, “He could of.” You KNOW that probably popped up in paper after paper after paper in HS…yet noone corrected it??
To me it’s comparable to trying to teach math by simple teaching the names of all of the different parts and pieces of a math problem, like the divisor and where it goes in the problem, the numerator and where it goes in a problem, the dividend and where it goes in a problem…but looking the other way when it turns out the kid can’t actually SOLVE the problem!!
Anyway, gotta go. I can’t believe this last 15 minutes went by so fast!
Thanks so much for your thoughtful answers.
Oh, and @wundayatta a ‘gerund’ is a, uh, verb thinger that ends in ‘ing.’ Like, “She was running.” Well, ‘run’ is a verb, but when you sticking an ‘ing’ on the end it gets, um, gerunded. And that’s today’s English lesson from Val! XXXOOO all!!