NSFW - Do you mention great sex the day after?

The last relationship I was in, on and off for about 7 years, was a lot about the sex. It was always great. Really. So we took it for granted and didn’t really ever discuss it – knowing it would be just as great again the next time.

@Zen_Again Yea, we always have great sex, but I always like to tell him after just how great it was.

I dont really talk about it in detail…. however I would certainly mention it, probably more in the way it made me feel emotionally rather than physically.

I do.

@JeffVader Yea my boyfriend doesn’t really talk about it in detail. He’ll say it’s good but that’s about it. Whereas I’ll say how hard he was, how it felt him entering me, how I like his moves and so on.

Mentioning how delightful last night’s sex was the next day is a way to acknowledge your lover’s contribution to the ecstasy and it builds anticipation of the next opportunity to enjoy each other. I think taking it for granted is a serious oversight.

@Dr_Lawrence I don’t take anything for granted. I know when I have something good.

@Sophief I think I’d probably be embrarased to get a txt like that at work (good embarased), besides my potential s/o seems to prefer to say what she’s going to do….

@JeffVader Yes, he likes getting those texts also, think he prefers those, then he’ll play! I think he is used o those texts now. He expects them, he’ll say when he has clients coming in, wonder why he does that?!

I would always compliment her and in great detail. The ego-stroke was great for her self confidence. We continually said and did things to affirm our love for each other.

@Sophief Hahahaha…. I suspect it has somehting to do with being unable to do anything about what uve texted, probably drives him wild!

@stranger_in_a_strange_land It is nice to hear, thank you.
@JeffVader mmmm, think it’s time for a text!

I mention it the day before!

@Sophief Hahaha, you little devil!

My boyfriend and I do all the time. He loves it. Especially when he is having a bad day at work. But I text him. I wouldn’t dare call him. I don’t think he needs to be walking around work, with a “reminder” of what happened the night before. ;)

You do when you want more.

I try to make sex great all the time, spice it up a bit. so no, no need to tell anyone. The two of us no how great it was.

Sometimes, briefly, but mostly we just look forward to the next time.

I only mention it as in: “I was just sitting here and started thinking about last night.” I don’t get into details. I have to work and despite what you women think, walking around frustrated, with a hard-on is not pleasant.
If you are going to text the details then do it just before I’m leaving so I have the whole way home to think about it and what we are going to do. You’ll get a lot more out of it too. ;-)

@worriedguy ...And where did you say you lived? lol

I send a nice “Thank You” card.

I usually mention it while it’s happening.
YES!YES!YES! I do. ;)

I think for us it is normally more during and maybe right after. Once in a while a quick comment happens the next day I suppose.

I love talking about it and telling him what I liked and what I didn’t like as much. Then I give ideas for what we can try next. I think guys like the feedback to boost their confidence. =]

I normally only mention it shortly after the deed is done. By the next day I’ve usually forgotten about it and I’m ready for another round.

Not the day after, maybe the minute or two after. I guess maybe the day after if it was really out of this world. But it’s always good and we both know that during it so we don’t usually need to say much regarding that after.

always

Nope, I’ve never done that. I may mention the next day if I am sore or something, but pretty much I let him know while it’s happening (aka a really good orgasm) while we are in the moment. The only other time may be if he doesn’t do the “good thing” again for a while I may say “remember when you…..”

I used to go into detail with him about the night before or something that I had just thought up for another time. He would always get uncomfortable. Big baby.

“I used to go into detail with him…”

@Trillian – tell us more. ;-)

Yes, we mention it. He’ll sometimes call me and say something like “by the way, last night was awesome”. We are certainly not shy in discussing our sex life.

@ChazMaz If telling it to him made his ears turn pink, imagine what it would do to someone who hadn’t participated! Can’t do it.

Sometimes we’ll mention something or other right after – say to each other ‘I love having sex with you’ and other things like that – we always have amazing sex, literally so we’d rather talk about something else.

Yes I think it’s good to talk about how great the sex was the day afterwards…it extends the turn on of the experience and makes my tummy flutter at the thought of how good it was…hee hee makes me eager for the next load of ‘sweet, sweet candy’ :)