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I like these two guys... I don't know which one to choose... Can you help me find their qualities?

Asked by sinlgeascheese1828 (6points) April 28th, 2010

My two best friends, Fuzzy and Lil’ Brother ( those are their nick-names) are my 2 crushes. I can’t choose between the two and I made a list of pros and cons. Here they are: Fuzzy: In my school, plays the violin and always plays my favorite song, Told me I’m pretty, likes to make me laugh, comes to my lunch table everyday and talks to me, Looks at me all the time, never made fun of me, he’s stuck up for me, and is totally comfortable with telling me how he feels. Lil’ Brother: Moved away, talked to me every day and joked around with me, whenever I saw him in the hallway he’d be like, ” HEY!! I KNOW YOU!! Highfive!” and he’d give me a high five and a hug… HE looks like Taylor Lautner.. Here are some cons: Fuzzy: mean at times, not very good looking, broke up with me in 4 days. Lil Brother: Moved away, he’ll say, ” Yeah, I’ll call you in 10 minutes” and that ends up being 2 weeks. HAs lied to me alot, when I ran into him, he only said,” Yeah sure” when I asked for a hug and then walked away because everyone from my school was crowding him because no one had seen him in a long time. I don’t know which one to choose… What would you do?

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loser's avatar

You’re assuming love has something to do with the brain! No, no, no… Love has to do with the heart. It’s often messy and rarely makes sense, but that’s what you need to follow: your own heart.

Captain_Fantasy's avatar

Do let us know what happens with this.

Will Fuzzy find about about lil Brotha?
Juicy!

emergence's avatar

I read once that if you think you’re in love with 2 people then truth is you don’t really love either. I think this is true. That said, sounds like you’re very young and just crushing on these guys… Do they both want to be your BF now or something? Why not continue to get to know them both, and let your heart guide you as you get to know them better?

ChaosCross's avatar

I would first ask the two if they felt the same way about me, and then enter a relaxed relationship. No need to go too fast. It sounds to me also that since you are crushing and not particularly “in love” I would suggest you do not think about this too much, if anything it is either finding a person you love or practice for when you do.

Disc2021's avatar

Neither of them sound very desirable to be honest.

When it comes down to it, though, follow your heart.

sinlgeascheese1828's avatar

Just to put this out there: Fuzzy and Lil Brother know eachother they just don’t know eachothe as like, Best friends…. If that makes sense…

Neizvestnaya's avatar

Neither of them. Pick a guy who pays you feel good attention and follows through with what he says.

sinlgeascheese1828's avatar

ALright!! Thank you all I best be off now, but I shall see all of you in the morning!! BRIGHT AND EARLY!!! :)

Simone_De_Beauvoir's avatar

I’d stick with Fuzzy now there’s a sentence I didn’t think I’d say today

jazmina88's avatar

why did fuzzy break up with you??

dont pick….just enjoy both of them. and wait for the man of your dreams

thriftymaid's avatar

You know them, so I don’t see how we can help you find their qualities.

Hypocrisy_Central's avatar

Ahhhhh…..duh…........

sinlgeascheese1828's avatar

whisper I think I would strive for Fuzzy.. I am going to give him some time though because it’s been 1 month and 3 days since we broke up… :( I will fill you guys in on the rest later!!! :) THANK YOU SOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO MUCH GUYS!!!! :)

Provlear's avatar

I would wait until you’ve graduated Middle School before you start dating.

sinlgeascheese1828's avatar

well my mom started in 7th grade and I’m in 7th.

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