Have you ever thought you deserved to have something that someone else had, more?

what does removed mean, and who r these” moderators”?

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my friend is “married” to this guy. “married” meaning they live together and have kids. They’ve been together for a long time but is not technically married. Anywho, I think I deserve this man more because they aren’t even in love. They’re only together because he feels sorry for her and she’s afraid to lose him. I think he should be my husband. But that’s why we’re having an affair. :)

That’s appalling!
For god’s sake, he has kids. Ever thought what you’re doing to them?
It shouldn’t matter how he feels about her, or how she feels about him. If they have kids, the situation changes. You’re fucking over their lives.

well they’re bound to break up eventually so they’re gonna screw the kids over anyway.

no.