Could someone give me some dating advice?

If it’s just casual dating without a sexual relationship then you should date the new girl without any anxiety.

If, after the first date or two you like her best then it would be wise of you to let the other girl know that you are not going to be seeing her anymore, or, vice/versa.

Whatever you do, do not weave a web of deception or you will end up empty handed and with a stigma of being a player and an asshole. lol

I would give both gals a chance as first, 2nd 5th dates are just not enough time to get to know enough about them. Then choose the one who you think of the most and who you can’t wait to see or hear from. Let your heart tell you.

I’m not saying call of your date that the girl asked you out on but obviously it hasn’t worked in the past (you said off and on), so maybe just stick with the girl you met recently and obviously really, really like.

I feel like the first girl (the one you really like) might be the better choice. You said you guys have been on and off… is there a particular reason you haven’t been able to work out a steady relationship? (Are you looking for a steady girlfriend?) Also, you mentioned that she sort of asked you to ask her out… it sort of sounds like she wants this more than you do, and you’re just going along with it.

Flip a coin. Seriously. Heads, it’s #1, and tails is #2.

When you toss the coin, before it even comes down, think about which side you want to see as a result.

Forget about how the toss comes out; don’t even look at the coin. Call the one you hoped it would be.

@xxii The reason we havent really worked out in the past is that she lives kind of far away. Not long enough for it to be a long distance relationship, but long enough for it to be a hassle to get to her house.
@Coloma Its defiently not a sexual thing, because im in 7th grade

@Guy123123

Well tuck it under your pillow for future reference young man! :-)

@Coloma Noted :)

@Guy123123 – Do you think the distance would get in the way of a relationship now? Are you still interested in dating her or are you just responding to her advances?

@xxii I do think the distance thing would still play a part, but also i think if i was more committed it would make less of a difference. I am interested in dating her, and the first time we were together was almost perfection and i was hoping to make it more like that. She was also my first kiss in 5th grade.

Straight up! You are still young enough where you have a lot of firsts ahead of you and pick the gal that you will look back on as the one that you will have the most fun with! Plus don’t discount the parents. If it is a coin flip take the one with the cool parent who won’t hang you up by your toes if you keep her out too late and if they have access to out of town summer homes even better!! ;)

@Cruiser

You are going to corrupt this kid! Summer houses, oh yeah…those were good huh? lol

you dont have to rule out either…...have fun with both.

@Guy123123 – Then I would tell you to go on both dates, play it by ear and make a decision on your own. Just don’t lie or deceive either of them… that will get you screwed.

FFM