NSFW: How often should one be able to expect oral sex from their SO?

Every time you have sex – of course.

69 times a month.

How often if one of party strongly desires it but the other does not reciprocate?

Daily as far as I’m concerned.

@FutureMemory Daily is good – thrice daily even better.

@faye That’s their problem. Do it for yourself.

@zenele Just never been that limber!! Maybe I should have said one strongly desires it but he does not reciprocate!

@faye OIC ;-)

Just kidding – but I meant that one should pleasure their (respective) partner – just for the sake of doing it – to both enjoy the giving part as much as the receiving part.
But that’s just me – I’m an oral kinda guy. Like Oral Roberts.

4 a day during holidays….is my record

if you have the time, why not do it daily?

My partner and I use oral sex most times we get intimate! We both love it so this is normal for us but I don’t think it is right to expect things, sexually, based on what other couples do. Everyone is different, with different needs and so just because one couple do it a certain way, doesn’t mean it will definately work for everyone else.

Entirely depends on a couple’s unique relationship. Some? Once every hour. Others? Never.

@zenele But that’s just me – I’m an oral kinda guy. Like Oral Roberts.

You have to wonder what his parents were thinking when they named him. If that isn’t his birth name, you have to wonder how he got the nickname!!

From how you’ve written it then it seems like one party doesn’t want to give oral much and reciprocation isn’t enough motivation for them to want to give it more often. I wouldn’t expect it from anyone I learned didn’t care for oral, it would make me more uncomfortable than pleasured knowing they were doing it just for me and would spoil it.

I’d find a new partner because experience has shown me a strong sexual match means sex is a release, it’s bonding and healing and I’d never let it be watered down to a chore or favor, something to become bitter and anxious about. blah. Sexual reciprocation and appreciation is super important in successful relationships I’ve witnessed.

You can expect it 24\7 but I reckon you ain’t going to get it that often. You have to find a balance between your needs and theirs.

You want more oral? You should talk about this with your partner.

I thought about this one more and think if it’s been decided the one who wants to give oral less is willing to reciprocate then the one who wants oral more should initiate and get going down!