Obviously he needs an extended stay in a rehab facility which handles dual diagnosis (addiction and psychiatric problems) so that things can be properly diagnosed.
That’s difficult to arrange on short notice.
Right now it’s an emergency and if it takes the police to put him someplace where he is unable to harm himself, then so be it.
He can always be directly transferred to a different facility like the one above at a later date.
The primary concern right now is for his physical safety not his dignity.
That’s definitely a secondary consideration. He pretty much tossed his dignity out the window by publicly posting suicide threats. That obligates people to take it seriously.
Just get him in a safe place now and let the future be for finding long term solutions, hopefully involving the cooperation of his family and loved ones and perhaps even himself once he’s out of the alcohol fog.
Obviously he is crying out for help. That’s different from just attention seeking.
But if he gets his nose out of joint and doesn’t like the type of help it produces…
…well that’s known as…Actions Have Consequences.
When you choose the behavior, you choose the consequences. One of the consequences of publicly posting multiple suicide threats is the possibility of being committed to a secure facility.
It’s better to have a friend pissed off at you than one in a coffin.
There hopefully will come a day when he will have sense enough to be grateful for a friend like you who took him seriously in a time of crisis.
And to those who are so convinced that he’s just attention grabbing, I have a simple question. Were you born with the ability to read minds are are you just delusional?
None of the rest of us have that ability, for the record.
And it just seems to me that the ones who theorize the loudest about the theory of “just wants attention” are those with ABSOLUTELY NO EXPERIENCE with this in real life.
Those of us who do know better.