When you meet & greet someone you know well, other than family, how do you do this?
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May 28th, 2010
I mean there are a variety of ways to do this most of which are tactile.Depending on intimacy & who the person is of course,best friend, colleague, maybe even a stranger introduced by a mutual friend.How do you do? If you catch my drift.
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I’m a hugger. If they are a friend- a real one- then I’ll open my arms and hug’em. Acquaintences get a hearty hello and a wave with a big smile.
I hump their leg.to show dominance of course
Well… if it’s my friend and I know what ethnicity they are, I always say “Hello” in their native language ‘cause I’m cool like that. Bonjour! Ni-hao! Konnichi wa! Hola! Buon giorno! Hallo! Olá!... And those are really the only languages I know. I also follow the greeting with a bear hug or a tackle. =]
a hug, maybe a kiss on the check.
For my guy friends, usually a handshake, but not the typical shake up and down… The same goes for parting. For my girl friends (not to be confused with girlfriends…), usually a hug. If I’m meeting someone new, usually the same as dear friends, only different words. Unless she’s wearing a powersuit… then she gets a hard handshake.
Interestingly enough, many of my couple friends seem to have gotten into a routine of a quick hug and kiss when we get together within the past few years. I’m fine with it and reciprocate except for one friend’s SO who has aimed for my lips a few times. That almost felt like a Seinfeld incident. Another friend always says, “Hello, little lady” which tickles me no end.
When introduced to a stranger, I will usually extend my hand for a shake and withdraw it quickly if it isn’t reciprocated.
Some I hug and kiss, some I hug, some I decided if I’m in the mood for before they make it to my front door and either open it or not depending on which way the wind blows.
A huge smile, a great big hug and a kiss on both cheeks.
I’m a hugger, too. Not a kisser except family. One of my boyfriends’ mother years ago welcomed me to a family dinner with a kiss on the lips-just a peck- but freaked me out a little!
Good friends – gentle hug, kiss on each cheek
Business colleague – Handshake “It’s good to see you. What have you been up to?”
Acquaintance I don’t know well – Nod, “Howzitgoin’, [name]?”
Someone I’m just meeting for the first time – Handshake, “How do you do?”
Hugs. Either the face to face kind or the one arm around a shoulder kind. Sometimes it’s a reaching out of both hands, grasping them and then a mutual move where we grip each other’s wrists and then break. I’m not one for “air kisses”.
I’m all just like, waaazzaaaaaaaaaaaaa foo!
((((Hugs)))) Most people like it when I hug them.
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