I can’t say it better than @Jeruba and I hate to say I agree with @YARNLADY.
Former Wis.dmers (r.i.p) know what unmodded means – and it doesn’t last very long.
This is by far a better alternative – for the former simply cannot exist. We apparently require a certain amount of moderation.
I have asked in a Q about the possibility of a fourth, unmodded category. Most people are against it. I’d say the majority like the way fluther is today – and it has changed a lot over the years.
I think of it like an exclusive club – where there is a selection process. You can come in, wear whatever you want, but heed the rules of the place. You want to have a fight with someone – do it in chat – it’s upsetting the peeps in the thread.
You want to be dumb, illiterate, or have forgotten to spell-check – fine – chat.
In other words, it’s a place for civilized, intelligent people to talk about things and ask and answer questions. It’s also a community. A welcoming one, at that. It’s not snobbish – it is what it is. You don’t fit into every community you walk into – why would everyone feel at home here? And why should a private, exclusive club (and it is – it’s not Yahoo) cater to the lowest common denominator?
And when one enters a new place, any new place, even a bowling alley (and I love ‘em) – they don’t walk up to someone’s lane – then grab their ball from their hands and throw the ball into their pins? They don’t take their smelly shoes and rub them in their noses? They don’t run in, bowl, and run out without paying – swearing all the time. Now do they?
Act civilly. Be treated civilly.
Act like an asshole, get modded.
Get modded enough, get kicked back to askville.
Nuf said.