@poofandmook: (((((hugs))))) I am sorry to hear that your grandmother is dealing with this.
I just had a sub-partial abdominal hysterectomy in April due to a huge fibroid. I am clinically, but not morbidly obese, so there weren’t many risks for anesthesia. They will do plenty of pre-admission testing – including blood work, chest x-ray and electrocardiogram in order to assess the risks. Prior to the surgery, family members with the same blood type can donate blood specifically for use with your grandmother, should she need any transfusion.
As described above, the ultrasound and other imaging techniques are still not the same as the physicians being able to examine the internal organs with their own eyes and hands. Anything and everything that they remove will go through pathology. In my case, the cervix and ovaries all looked good, so they only removed my uterus and left all else intact. I am premenopausal, so it was beneficial to keep the ovaries; but since your grandmother is past that point, it will probably be best for her to have a total hysterectomy.
Whether any additional cancer treatment will be needed after surgery can not be speculated. Recovery from the abdominal hysterectomy takes a long time, since they cut through the abdominal wall. I was discharged from the hospital after 2 days. They may want to monitor your grandmother a little longer than that. The pain wasn’t generally bad, but we use those muscles for more than we realize! I knew coughing and sneezing would hurt, but even laughing did the first few days. Rolling over in bed and getting up to go to the bathroom were also tough, because we engage our abdominals to sit up and twist, etc.
Our body also uses a lot of energy to rebuild those connections and to heal the scar, so you get tired very easily. It’s been nearly 6 weeks, and I just had my final follow-up today and am cleared to return to work tomorrow. I’m still not at 100%, but I feel quite close, and know that resuming normal activities will help me increase my strength and energy after a couple weeks. I bought scar cream that I applied to the scar staring a few days after the staples were removed. It really seemed to help ease the tightness and itching and the scar is barely red.
I’m sorry that I couldn’t offer more insight about your cancer concerns, but thought my recent experiences could help you know what to expect with the surgery. You and your grandmother are in my thoughts. And remember that I am here in NJ, too… so if there’s anything I can do to help, let me know. <3