@Neizvestnaya Oh ok. :) Well, I had the chance to tell the abbreviated story of my first transsexual friend.
@zenele If I was transsexual, that is all I could ask of you so, in lieu of my friends, thankyou. :)
@gemiwing Point taken re John and manners. By the making someone uncomfortable, myself and others have been unmannerly towards him.
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Regarding this fellow in underwear etc., I understand what everyone is saying about going out dressed like that. I have seen some, shall we say, amazing things in public. I spent most of my life in California, all of it within driving distance of San Francisco. What John saw was, well, not terribly high on the weird-o-meter for certain parts of SF. I started taking the bus to SF when I was, oh, about 10 years old. I remember the jaw dropper I had when I saw my first gay pride parade in SF… I had to have been about 12 and wandered into it. Some of the every day SF would be considered, well, a bit odd by most of the rest of the nations.
It is just how I was raised. No matter what I see, the most I do is raise an eyebrow briefly, and turn away. Yes, I have laughed but I get away from the person, preferably out to my car.
I am not saying that he was wrong in laughing… I am only saying that he was unmannerly in where he did it. At my ripe old age of 47 I would probably just shake my head by now but 30 years ago, I would have gotten out to my car or hidden my face in some clothes and had a laugh.
I mentioned it at all because I wanted to bring up that I do not believe that the guy he saw was transsexual because I have never known a transsexual who wants to draw attention to themselves. They avoid that like the plague, from the transsexuals who I have known.