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What do you do when all of your friends are fighting?

Asked by Harrow185 (298points) June 8th, 2010

I have a small group of friends, maybe about 8 of us. And everyone of them is arguing with each other. One of my old friends (friend A) broke off from my current group of friends to hang out with a guy she likes, and stopped all connections with us. So because of that my friends started talking badly about her, saying what ever they could that would make her look bad. 6 of them, are in a class together at school, (I’m not in the class, but my sister is, friend A isn’t either.) And all they do is talk about friend A, so my sister (me not knowing) told friend A that they were talking about her, because she was fed up with it and thought it was best for her to know. Well my sister just turned on a bomb by doing that. So friend A now knows what everyone says about her, and is heartbroken by the situation. Friend A started yelling at her old best friend asking why she was talking badly about her, and no one knew who told Friend A. My sister emailed us all telling us it was her, shocked everyone just got in a fight with everyone. What should happen? Is my sister right for starting this? Should we all resolve this by talking it out?

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janbb's avatar

(Are you C?)

Seriously, yes you should all get together and talk it out. Sounds like it could be quite painful, but can’t see any other way to get through it. Good luck!

Silhouette's avatar

Your sister didn’t start it, she ended it. Don’t say something behind a persons back that you wouldn’t say to their face. From this point on it’s not your problem and it’s not your sisters problem, let the others fight it out.

MissA's avatar

Sounds like your friends have a little bit of growing up to do. When they emerge from grade school, you may or may not have a friendship in tact. This is when I feel good about being older!

marinelife's avatar

Talking it out together is the only possible way of fixing it.

SeventhSense's avatar

I find the concept of friends highly overrated.

Trillian's avatar

“Youth is wasted on the young.” George Bernard Shaw…. Or Oscar Wilde. My Google sources attribute this to both men.

stardust's avatar

I agree that talking it out together is the best way to resolve this. We all go through ups and downs with friends. Remember it will pass soon, as everything does :)

perspicacious's avatar

All nonsense to me. All of you sound like acquaintances, not true friends.

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