@le inferno
I’m still trying to figure out your comment about it being crooked.
But let’s transfer this to a different situation or even another site, for that matter so that the basic principle is clearer.
Whatever site you are on, it is owned and paid for by whoever owns that site.
The fact that one is granted the ability to send PMs is merely a courtesy they extend to their users. It’s still their site and their servers (or server space paid for by them).
I always assume that the Private Message system on any site means Private from the public at large NOT from the owners and Admins of that site.
It’s done as a convenience for the users so they don’t have to put their own email addy up for potential spam or trolling spambots.
The only place you have a reasonable expectation of privacy is on the hard drive of a computer owned and paid for by you. Everything else is up for grabs.
If you’re using a work computer, they can snoop on you at will and it’s not considered as crooked but as sound business practice. Same goes for any other “space” on the Internet.
You can’t reasonably throw out accusations about “crooked” if that space isn’t owned by you.
And I’m using the word “you” in a much more general sense than just you personally. It includes me as well. It’s more of a communal “you”.
We would all do well to remember this. There is no reasonable expectation of privacy anywhere on the Internet. Period.
I’ve encountered a bunch of articles from people complaining about Google’s policies about the contents of Gmail. But Google is being very upfront about precisely what they are doing and not doing with it, so what’s the beef ?
They are providing a whopping 2–7 gigs of free storage space on servers that they pay for. That’s a lot of free storage.
If one doesn’t like what they’re doing with the content of their emails, the solution is really simple. DON’T USE IT.
The exact same thing applies to PMs on any site. If you don’t like the idea of the possibility that they could be read by anyone other than the recipient, DONT USE IT.
There are no grounds for accusations of being crooked. Their site. Their servers.
It’s nice that Fluther limits the ability of mods in this way but they aren’t required to. And many sites don’t and it’s not considered a big deal and certainly not considered crooked in any way.
Privacy anywhere on the Internet is a delusion (especially when using equipment or space not under your ownership).