The mods get a lot of grief but has moderation ever saved you?
Has it ever been a blessing? I don’t even remember the question I asked. One night, I was, I think, FUI, Fluthering Under the Influence that is, and I asked a question. I woke up the next morning thinking about the question, wishing I hadn’t asked it and logged onto the site immediately not knowing what to expect. And God Bless them! The mods had pulled my question for editing and I could not have been happier, unless there had been a button, under the abandon question button, with an option to “Abandon Question? Hell yes! Obliterate it! Annihilate it! Using NSA standards! Please! Thank you!”
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Well, it’s certainly prevented me from getting really nasty in certain threads. I’m very glad flamewars are not allowed.
Agreed ^. Remember wis.dm? It’s like a distant memory nightmare.
Way back before I was a mod, I asked a pretty pointed question that, while naming no names was really obviously directed at an ex-member here. This person had riled up a lot of folks in the community, so everyone knew who I was talking about and jumped right into the fray. The question was first sent back to me for editing, and they asked that I remove the obvious hints. I did, it was reposted, but it was too late… everyone already knew who it was about, and it continued to go downhill from there. The entire thread was one huge train-wreck. The mods eventually removed the whole thing, and rightly so. I had let my frustration get the better of me, and I never should have asked it in the first place.
I once used “to” instead “too” in a question. They sent it back to me so I could fix it. That saved me a lot of embarrassment.
I’m not kidding. It was rejected for missing a “o”. But I am kidding about saving me from embarrassment.
I’ve had lame personal attacks that were directed at me removed. Had a very boring question sent back for editing that I allowed to die a dignified death. So yes, I’ve been saved a few times by the mods – and other jellies.
@johnpowell Will you never let me live that down? Sheesh. :(
@augustlan – I have to say…
You are personable and communicative. Having a unique approach to us “little people”.
Not meaning to come off negative or disrespectful to other mods.
But, YOU are ok in my book. :-)
So far. ;-)
No….never. The only time I will accept moderation is when I F’d up and put it in the wrong section. I despise it when someone else has say so over what I think and feel.
I inadvertently started a flame war with a question in my first week here. The mods jumped on it right away and I agreed that there was nothing I could do to correct it, so let it die. On the previous site, the owners would have just allowed it to go thermonuclear.
I’m periodically a stalking target. The mods deal with those so quickly that I often don’t see what the troll said.
Saved me?? No.
The strangest thing I was modded for was a happy face I posted in response to a comment to one of my questions! WTH? LOL!
I don’t assess my own motivations all that well. Things often seem right to me at the time I post them, and I nearly always agree with the moderation later, after I calm down.
I’ve been saved while Fluthering Under the Influence. Thank you mods! especially auggie. ;)
@lillycoyote Have you ever woken up after a night of FUI and dreaded logging in to Fluther, worried about things you might have posted? I hate that feeling. Luckily it doesn’t happen that often.
Don’t drink and post. >_>
But no, I haven’t really been ’‘saved’’ by moderation.
@dpworkin
Really ? ?
Even when it “sucks monkey dick” ? (your immortal phrase, not mine :)
It was sooo funny, I just felt it could use another go-round :D
Apologies to any offended parties :)
I think that probably hurt @Syz’s feelings, and she was just doing her job. I can’t say I’m proud of it, although I still think that poor guy’s question should have been left the hell alone.
When I have flunked (fluther while drunk), upon reflection, I have often sucked the monkey’s dick in a bad way with some of my remarks and posts. I see the mods as imperfect; but then so am I.
Aren’t we all. And Syz is a pretty good egg.
I didn’t really want to drag her name into it again, but it was just such a memorable phrase :)
I’ve made some really stupid typos and had to flag my own questions. A mod (usually Dog) has come to my rescue and returned them to me for editing so I could clean them up.
I have to admit, the benefits far out weigh the frustrations. It’s nice to know people aren’t going to be allowed to flame you.
FLAME ON
I’m such a child. Anyone have any spidey comics?
Whenever the mods remove a question or a quip that pisses me off yes, even before I became a mod :P they save me.
@Cruiser: If you don’t like people messing with what you say, perhaps you shouldn’t say it at all. No one can mess with it when it’s still inside your brain.
I’ll remember to bring a vacuum gauge the next time I go near a monkey.
@KatawaGrey It’s about the thrill of the chase, plus if I kept all this in my head it would melt down!
I have not had too many pulled. So far, nothing that has been pulled has been a bother. One was a boon:
I made a really dumb and embarrassing quip a bit ago and, luckily, it was off topic amongst a bunch of (more intelligent) off topic chatter. I was very happy to see that sucker go.
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