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Is there anything that you would like to "get off your chest?"?

Asked by BoBo1946 (15325points) June 15th, 2010

Is there something you did today that you feel guilty about and would like to get out in the open? Want to bitch about your boss or your s/o….Did a Fluther member get under your skin…Chaz gets under mine everyday! loll Comedy is welcomed!

Ok socialites, have at it…

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Berserker's avatar

Last night I had this very sexually oriented dream about Xena and Gabrielle. That’s why I took out my old avatar again. I was just gonna not mention the dream, but eh, nothing particularly exciting happened today. Hope it passes. I mean, I did have to get it off me chest.

tranquilsea's avatar

I hate feelings of guilt so I don’t do anything that I would have to feel guilty about. It’s a good way to live life.

Vunessuh's avatar

I’d like to get my bra off my chest and run around nekkid. It’s friggin’ hot today.

lucillelucillelucille's avatar

Yes,I’d like to get the giant “MOM” tattoo removed from my chest,but I’m afraid of hurting her feelings ;)

Blackberry's avatar

Seriously though…....who drills for oil and doesn’t have a backup plan to cover mishaps…....lol. I can’t belive these people are college-educated. I thought people were supposed to get smarter with that piece of paper lol.

lillycoyote's avatar

Not really. I am going to the grave with most of my secrets and grudges. The wrongs I have done, I either right as best I can or apologize for as best I can.

Sueanne_Tremendous's avatar

I farted in a crowded freight elevator as many exhibitors were taking their trade-show booths to their vehicles. It was a food show so you can only begin to imagine…

edit: frankly, after a food trade show, a well placed fart is actually a bit of relief to all within range

Blackberry's avatar

Ah yes, there have many crop dusts I have gotten away with lol.

knitfroggy's avatar

I’m really mad at my husband. Our son has ADHD, an unspecified mood disorder and anxiety poor guy is only 7. My husband knows full well that our son us unable at this point to control himself when he gets angry about something, no matter now small. So, after so much from our son, my husband loses his temper with him. I’ve lost my temper with him to, I’m not going to lie about it. But what makes me so upset at my husband is he doesn’t want to let it go. He dwells on it. Keeps talking about it, and stays mad at our boy for a couple hours. It’s really frustrating to me. Once our son has raged and calmed down, he is back to his sweet, happy self. When I’ve lost my temper and gotten angry with him, I am able to let it go, but my husband isn’t. Dude let it go! And try a little harder!

Also, I am sick of my job and want the whole shiteree to go to hell.

I feel better now that I got all off my chest.

BoBo1946's avatar

glad you guys and girls could vent… farting in a crowd…too funny!!!!!!!

ZEPHYRA's avatar

Yeah, I would love a breast reduction!

BoBo1946's avatar

@ZEPHYRA really…loll…most want the opposite!

partyparty's avatar

Yes right at this moment I would like to get my two little dogs off my chest.
They are becoming quite silly and trying to lick my face.
(I wouldn’t have it any other way)

BoBo1946's avatar

If you are in a good mood, please don’t read this!

I’ve kept quiet about this for three years…only my best friend knows all of this!

Getting this off my chest by writing…it helps me deal with mean-spirited people. Today, found my ex’s facebook page and her photos are listed as, “Dog’s In Her Life!” She had Spunky, Putter, and many others. Then, she included me in the section (a photo of me releiving myself on the golf course i was behind a tree!)

And, while I’m getting stuff off my chest….she accepted a person that i dated as one of her friends on Facebook. Really!

Also, would like to clear up one more thing…God As My Witness, NEVER cheated on my wife physically (20 years of marriage..well, almost 20). Okay, had few moments mentally, but every man with the acception of One, has done that.

Ok, never laid a hand on my ex…never…but, there was times that it was tempting..like the day she brought home a new 2005 BMW with a price tag of give or take, $40,000! She NEVER discussed it with me…not once!

And, futhermore, she accused me in the divorce decree of gambling our money away. That is a lie. She was the one that had a premier card at Hollywood. Those are people that have lost a lot of money. She spent time in the 5 dollars section…learned this after the divorce. If you are gambling three coins, that is 15 bucks a pop!

Oh, here is another one…told to me from a reliable source after the divorce..there is not any way this lady could have known this unless my ex said it…she told a group of people that her sister’s husband had lots of money and she was in bad health and he (her sister’s husband) liked her! At the time, she was in bad health!...now, i understand she is much better.

And, hey…my ex. STOLE my retirement check..and forged my name… And, hey my ex. destroyed my credit with including my name on the credit cards over the internet…I HAD NO IDEA until after the divorce and found out my credit was ruined from her non payment on the cards. TO THE TUNE OF ALMOST $50,000…YES, that is right. That deal today, her calling me a dog…JUST SET ME OFF… She brought nothing into the marriage accept an antique bed and $12,000 in credit card bills.

And futhermore, my ex started a business…moving houses and renting them..well, she bought the first one and fixed up…looked real good…and “low and behold,” she had $25,000 debt with Lowes etc…this after the bank financed the house. Had to sell my farm to pay it off..

And, moving along here…i build my dream home on the lake at the Natchez Trace Lake…..She moved in with me…number one mistake…and she was never satisfied with the house…always looking at new one. Well, the biggest mistake of life…NO, the second biggest mistake of my life, we bought the house at Highland Circle (jet set lived there…several houses worth over 5 million)...only because she was never happy with my house…I spent a ton of my money fixing the house up!!!. Large amount..unreal..i’m just stupid for doing it.

Okay, not finished..Michelle’s (my step daughter) wedding..oh my gosh, what i spent on that…and called Michelle a couple of times after my ex and i separated..she would not even answer the phone…NOT ONE TIME did Michelle and Joey have a bad moment in 20 years!...while we are on Joey (step son), spent $1800 get his truck out of hock with the bank…paid $4000 for a 4 wheeler…and gave him my Jeep to go to Mississippi State…MY THANKS FROM JOEY..when my ex and i were separated..he SENT THE POLICE TO MY HOUSE asking where she was…...should write a book on all this junk. There is more…and more…she has her story and she has BLASTED IT ALL OVER CREATION..MS DRAMA QUEEN…well, this is my story and it is TRUE! please excuse my anger!

There is so much more..dealing with my mom’s Alzheimer’s and my ex the last three years…and not to mention my credit and finanaces….it has been hard. I’m a very strong person, but this has been one ordeal.

In closing, when i saw that on her facebook page today, just set me off!

Thank you allowing me to vent.

Also, know there are some mispelled words..but, not in the mood to proofread!

BoBo1946's avatar

loll..actually, if you are in a bad mood, don’t read it..

knitfroggy's avatar

@BoBo1946 Do you feel any better after venting? I vented above and felt better! I hope you do too, even if it’s only a little…

BoBo1946's avatar

wow….it has been a nightmare @knitfroggy ! Believe i could write a book on the series of events and it would be a best seller!

Thank you so much for taking the time to ask me that..yes, feel better.

Take care!

BoBo1946's avatar

Goodnite everyone…time for some “shuteye!”

knitfroggy's avatar

@BoBo1946 Well, write that book! Make some money back! :) G’Night!

partyparty's avatar

@BoBo1946 Wow that must have been an absolute nightmare for you. I so sympathise. What a dreadful person she is!! Think you are well rid of her.
I hope you feel better now you have put it in writing.
I am sure your new ‘furry friend’ will bring much joy to your life. They don’t cheat, don’t cost much, give love freely and are always there for you. :-)

zenele's avatar

@BoBo1946 Nothing comes to mind. Life’s good.

BoBo1946's avatar

@partyparty there is SO much more…got tired of writing! It has been three years since my divorce and it never seems to end with her. She throw licks every chance given!

Oh well, that was yesterday…today is a new day!

And, my new fuzzy friend is SO good…another lady in the family!

CMaz's avatar

I, in a way, feel better about my life after reading what you have wrote.

Though, you are better off without her.
And, you have friends like myself that would LUV a new BMW. ;-)

BoBo1946's avatar

@ChazMaz that was really good…thank you for that message my brother!!!!!!! Friends are what life is about!

pearls's avatar

@BoBo1946 Wow after reading that story, can’t think of a thing I need to get off my chest other than maybe a mole. She obviously doesn’t have her facebook page set to private. When I had mine, that’s what I did because I didn’t want everyone knowing my business. BTW, if it has been three years and reading your story, why would you even care about what she has on facebook?

BoBo1946's avatar

@pearls understood, but during those three years, she keep throwing jabs at me…other instances, but today is a new day. Buried that one last night…DOA…not going there again. Over….never again!

Thank you my friend!

pearls's avatar

I certainly hope it’s over for you. You will never be able to move on if you don’t let go. And stay off Facebook….lol

CMaz's avatar

I say you give us her Facebook profile. We can make her life miserable.

BoBo1946's avatar

@ChazMaz loll..sounds like a winner to me my friend!!!!!

@pearls ditto girl!!!

pearls's avatar

@BoBo1946 I really like ChazMaz’s idea.

BoBo1946's avatar

@pearls really…how would you do it?

partyparty's avatar

@BoBo1946 The Facebook idea is wonderful. We will bombard her with misery!!

BoBo1946's avatar

loll..nothing like good friends!

Silhouette's avatar

@BoBo1946 She sounds like a real peach, but I’d be lying if I said I didn’t think it was a little funny for her to post the picture of you “lifting your leg” on a tree in the “Dogs in her life” section.

You should do the same, call it Bitches who bite the hands which feed them, or Bitches I couldn’t teach not to shit where they eat.

Silhouette's avatar

Yes, I quit smoking about 30 hours ago, I broke weak this morning and smoked a cigarette butt I found under my patio furniture, it’s anyone’s guess how long that butt had been laying under there, you can imagine how nasty it was, didn’t matter one wit, I smoked that cruddy booger anyway.

I have to start all over, what a wuss.

Berserker's avatar

I enjoy purposely peeing myself.

BoBo1946's avatar

loll..good idea Sihouette! Like that idea…

you have the same will power i do Sport…mine started with my divorce, again!

Vunessuh's avatar

@Symbeline Can you do that on our wedding night, cause I think I just fell in love with you. XD

Aster's avatar

Wow, boo. She sounds like a sociopath. What a user. Seemed like a good person when you married her???

Aster's avatar

Confession (Secret) : I forgot to pay 2 CC bills to the tune of $79 in finance charges. grrrrr I am SO angry at myself!! My other desk had cubbyholes for bills but this one doesn’t.

BoBo1946's avatar

@oh, it was a nightmare. Could talk about it for days, but not worth it. Thank you Aster.

CMaz's avatar

I had a dream about my ex wife last night. It will be fucking with me all day. I really hate that.

BoBo1946's avatar

@ChazMaz you mean a damn nightmare…loll

Aster's avatar

@BoBo1946 My H’s exwife did some things to him and here is how he stopped her: he told his sons: “some wives just can’t LET GO.”
Never had another problem.

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