I occasionally play video games, but it’s pretty rare these days, on average, I play less than once a month.
What I enjoy about it when I do play is that it is a very psychologically immersing activity, and it basically stops me ruminating about things, and focusing my attention anywhere than on the current task. When I really want to disconnect my mind and not think about anything important, I sometimes choose to play a video game, as it can be a relaxing activity for this reason, particularly when my mind has been racing or I’ve been experiencing a lot of worries.
Of course, there are other activities that I also enjoy that focus my mind (e.g., socialising, reading, walking, crochet, playing music), but I find that video games seem to very powerful in their capacity to immerse me. Sometimes if I am feeling stressed or my mind is really wandering, I find it difficult to concentrate on reading or other tasks of that sort.
In terms of the specific games I like to play, I really enjoy games that have a nice story and characters, like the Zelda games and Final Fantasy. It’s a very soothing experience, for a number of reasons. In one way, I suppose it’s comforting as it reminds me of being a teenager and having fun playing games at my friend’s house. It immerses me in the sense that you have to concentrate and constantly perform motor actions, and I guess this effect is amplified is there is a nice story, pleasant characters, and so on.
I don’t really go on Fluther obsessively, but I guess it has some of those things in common, in the sense that you can focus and immerse yourself in a discussion and enjoy reading what others have to say. I also find that some challenging topics are enjoyable to contribute to, in that developing my point of view and articulating it in writing can be pleasingly satisfying and a good intellectual exercise.