We live in Connecticut, in a shoreline town.
I like the town beach, which is semi-private. Anyone can get a season or day pass, but it’s much cheaper for residents. The beach has a great playground, big picnic areas with a lot of shade, and a little snack stand/burger joint. The fireworks for July 4th are held at the beach, and it’s like a huge party. The fireworks are shot from a barge out in Long Island Sound, and laying on a beach blanket while the fireworks explode over your head is one of the highlights of the year!
I also like our quaint downtown area, with it’s beautiful town green and lack of chain stores or restaurants. We have a Starbucks, Subway, and CVS, huddled together at one end of town where they can’t offend all the little local shops. Our bookstore is incredible, and for a rather smallish town brings in famous authors and celebrities for signings and talks. I like the school system here, the many great hiking areas and parks, the gorgeous fall foliage, and the close proximity to NYC, Boston, and Providence. I like all the little towns around us, and the incredible Italian and seafood restaurants.
Our house is fine, in that it has room for us and meets our needs. There are lot of things that could be updated, and all of the windows need to be replaced. Our yard, however, is awesome. It’s big, private, and shaded by several very big trees. We have a big wooden deck that runs the length of the house and is perfect if you can ignore the fact that it really needs to be refinished! We can cut through the field off our back yard to the high school track and football field, almost all of my husband’s relatives live within an hour (some right down the street, and some only 15 minutes away) and our favorite park for collecting bugs is within walking distance.
What I don’t like about this town is that it is has a reputation for snobbery. There are a lot of people in town who have a lot of money, but I don’t think they are a majority. They seem to want to turn this town into Greenwich (why?!!??!) or some little New England enclave. As a result, people from other areas judge this whole town as stuck up and exclusive. The people who want this town to be seen as a luxurious haven are so vocal that it’s hard to combat. I like to equate them to the religious right in the U.S. It’s a small price to pay, I suppose, for all the benefits of this area to our kids.
Oh, we’re also very, very, very far away from my family. Perhaps that is the biggest benefit to where we live!