I’d like to mention a followup to my anecdote above.
On the game’s official forums, there is a 763-reply thread with over 160 thousand views. Most threads have <20 replies, and <20 thousand views. And this thread is 14 hours old, as opposed to those others which are weeks old.
On the game’s most popular unofficial forums, the related thread is over 1500 replies, and has 63 thousand views. Again, in 14 hours. It’s extremely rare for a thread to go above 200 replies or 20,000 views there.
I think that speaks for itself on how absolutely amazed, and how strongly the players feel about this.
In the thread on those unofficial forums, some people have posted their real names as a “Look, you people are upset over nothing. Relax. Here’s my name.” sentiment. And from that, other users have found addresses, phone numbers, family photos, etc.
The biggest problem with requiring real names in a community like this is the fact that almost everyone is tech savvy. They are not the hunt-and-peck typers who barely understand how to turn on a computer. So finding out personal information is a relatively easy task.
And for the record, my account for that game is registered to one Harold Saxon. Because I don’t feel like playing around with that kind of stuff.
I can see two good reasons for showing full names.
1) The Greater Internet Fuckwad Theory. Without anonymity, people are less likely to be total fuckwads.
2) With real names shown, you get a bit more of a feeling of community or intimacy, it’s a bit more of a human experience. I’m assuming this is why you introduce yourself at AA meetings?
But those are so very minor.
1) Despite what my statement in bold at the top of the question says, it is possible to fake the name. So instead of being trolled by BARRELROLL69, you’ll be getting trolled by someone like Mike hunt. So that’s not really fixing anything.
2) Even though they make up 51% of the population, girls who publicly announce their femalehood on the internet are kind of rare. Girls who do so on gaming websites are way more rare. I expect any girl will immediately get harassed as soon as it’s known that they’re female.
3) In general, it’s not too hard to find real personal information about people with a full name. Even easier when you have a general area of where the person lives.
4) I don’t think that the community itself (aside from those who like to harass others) actually wants this. So it seems like a lot of effort for minimal gain.
In general. I try to keep my online presence and my real life separate. Most jellies who visit the chat know my first name. A select few of those know my full name and know my facebook. In the computer gaming realm (where I spend a lot of time), nobody knows me by anything other than a last name (an extremely common last name, for the record).
Today I can google old screennames I used and find all sorts of stupid stuff I said when I was a young teen exploring the ‘net. I expect that 10 years from now, I’ll look back and think the things I said in 2010 were dumb. Now, if there’s just a screenname attached to them, that’s fine, I can make a new one. But if my full, real name is attached, well, I can’t do much about that.
Long story short, I’m not in favor of this idea.