Thing is, the Industrial Revolution happened. In Britain, where it hit first, the workers were basically made into a commodity that served business. Life was pretty rough – long hours, low pay, little time to yourself, dangerous conditions. On the Continent, they saw what happened and people wanted better. There was also a history of revolutions when the people felt like they were getting the short end of the stick. So Continental Europeans decided to keep something called “quality of life” – decent vacation time (because there, family seems to be a bigger priority), fair wages, work/life balance.
Of course, here in America they saw how it was too, but they didn’t do much in the way of safeguarding quality of life. America has a kind of frontier mentality still, “if you don’t like it, go off and start your own business or work somewhere else.” Too bad there’s not a frontier here anymore where that kind of thing is viable. Also, in America, there was the “anyone who really wants to can get stinkin’ rich” meme, so people kept throwing themselves into the machine trying. It doesn’t work for very many, but people keep hoping to win that lottery so they don’t question how it could be better.
I guess what I’m trying to say, @josie, is that people invest their resources where it’s important to them. They reap what they sow. In Europe, that vacation time, medical care, and such is what people decided was important, so they all pay for it. It’s one reason so many European countries (and Scandinavian ones in particular) keep popping up on the “most happy countries” lists.
Here in America, we decided that quality of life wasn’t worth as much as the “pull yourself up by your bootstraps, serve the machine, and maybe, someday when you’re old and have penny pinched your whole life, you too can have time to see your family” myth. Like I said, people invest in what they find important, and that’s apparently what people value here. And the little people in society, the ones who “pay” for all that prosperity achieved by the big people at the top? They’re often just as “good and pissed off” paying for their leisure and luxury (with their long hours or no hours, their sweat and their tears and the time they don’t see their family) as you imagine the happy Europeans to be.