@Andreas
1) Of course there will be – but that doesn’t mean it’s appropriate. You could also say there will always be trolls, doesn’t mean you shouldn’t flag them.
2) There’s are a few different types of questions. There are questions that, more or less, have one answer – will I die if I chop off my head? Only if you do it properly. Then there are questions about how-to and everyday tips – how should I clean the bugs off my window? There’s more than one right answer, but definitely not an infinite number of answers. This is where @steve22 ‘s question would be categorized. Then there are the “what’s your opinion” questions. Those often do look for the experience of others. However, it should be pointed out that if life was as simple as using the experience of others, everyone’s life would be sooooooo much easier. It’s because we do have to make our own mistakes, and because there are almost no rules or words of wisdom that fit 100% for everyone that we must figure out our own wisdom. And @steve22 didn’t ask for your experience, he asked for a how-to. Would you tell someone who just found out their spouse is cheating what to do without being asked? No, because it’s not appropriate.
3) But… @steve22 isn’t your child, and you aren’t his parent. Just because a person is young doesn’t mean you can act as their parent, especially if they haven’t asked for that. Also, you can either lecture a person as a kid, or hold them up to the responsibilities of an adult – but both is a double standard wrapped up in mixed messages and deep fried in impossible standards.
4) How is asking for instructions like a child asking for advice? If you take out any ethical issues, I thought it was phrased the same way my mother asks me how to check her Amazon.com cart. Had he said “do you think I should”, I could see the advice, but he didn’t.
5) Here’s the threat: Quite frankly, I’m old enough to have friends in management in a lot of places, and I would be more than happy to escalate this message to Ernst & Young’s HR department.
6) The other thread was one in which @steve22 asked how to jailbreak an iPhone. Despite the term, jailbreaking a phone isn’t illegal or even unethical – it’s the iPhone equivalent of ripping the tags off your mattress.
7) Yes, I suppose you could consider stealing a companies time to be an act of thievery – although, let’s not act like there aren’t tons of people we would otherwise consider model citizens who facebook or Fluther at work. However, checking your email on the companies time isn’t quite of the same degree of theft as, say, embezzlement, which I got the impression was more where @PandoraBoxx was going.