NSFW: What kind of activities, actions or people really turn you on sexually?

dancing…..music musicians

Smart, aggressive, outspoken women outside of the bedroom, who don’t mind being submissive (tied up) whilst in the bedroom.

Creative women.
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Call me weird, but when someone is multi-lingual, it just drives me wild in the brain & the pants. :) I love intelligence more than physical appearance. Yes Heidi Klum is gorgeous, but when she switches from English to German during interviews…sweet damn that is hot.

When my husband comes home covered in dirt and a dark tan from working hard at the ranch. I love my blue-collar guy. ;)

Good Scrabble players. And people with whom I laugh hard about the same things. You have to beat me at Scrabble and laugh till you cry with me before I’ll kiss you.

Singing lumberjacks.I like my manly-men festive.

men in uniform, especially policemen.

Super masculine men. Big hands, big shoulders, 5 o’clock shadow. Shaved heads <- I also have a really out there bizarro fetish for watching men have their hair cut or head shaved. Blue collar guys, uniforms, slightly crooked teeth and an overinflated ego.

Intelligence, passion, talent, confidence…I love complex people, people who get sarcasm and subtlety and who are funny…I get off on strength and vulnerability wrapped in one…androgyny.

Intelligence and good conversationalist first and foremost.
Kind personality.
Redheads or brunettes.
Pale skin.
Nice legs and feet.
Nice eyes and/or smile a plus.
Must bake cookies.

“I get off on strength and vulnerability wrapped in one”

As do I.

@cprevite What? No blonds? None of my cookies for you. :P

I love nerdy men. I mean, you have no idea. Wanna snag me? Play magic with me. Quote Star Trek. Even better, quote one of the really obscure sci-fi shows I love. I went to CTcon a couple weeks ago and there was a cute guy in a home-made, old-school borg costume. I was drooling. Fans of Enterprise need not apply.

Strangely enough, I am wildly attracted to really short guys with a little muscle on them. Naturally, all of my boyfriends have been way taller than I but that’s not exactly hard but there’s something about a man who is at eye level with me that makes me more than a little horny. I would never tell my 6’1 boyfriend that.

I swear I could easily grow an extra hip and thigh if I sit and Fluther any longer. I need to shut ‘er down for the night. Now, off to sing lumberjack songs.

The debonnaire who can also switch gears into hunter/gatherer and mercenary if need be.

The one who is dominant when I need soothing and submissive when I feel doting.

The one who is articulate and intelligent but can move comfortably in almost any social circle.

The one who can hold their tongue to watch, wait and then take action.

I have liked smart nerds and i have liked blue collar tough guys. I am submissive sexually and that’s what turns me on in bed – being dominated. I also get turned on giving oral sex.

I think profound, strong, square jawlines are attractive.
Black hair, pale skin and light eyes.
Tattoos.
Sarcasm and a dry sense of humor.
Spontaneity.
Someone with the ability to have deep, intellectual conversations one minute and silly, pointless sometimes immature conversations the next.
Doesn’t take themselves too seriously.
Josh Brolin or Julie Dreyfus. Or I’ll take both.
And I go nuts when someone breathes heavily in my ear or all over my body.

Smart, independent women who could potentially kick my ass.

I have a serious pin-up and femme fatale fetish.

The high wire version of Feets of Flame over my bunk bed…no net of course! Woot!

@jjmah if I experimented outside of men, that would do it for me in the ladies department.

@Fiddle_Playing_Creole_Bastard don’t we all?

Catch my eye for straight up sexy: rugged look, soft eyes
Catch my eye for legit interest: nerd indicators in a confident but polite guy
In bed: like being submissive and like a guy who’s relatively aggressive but knows not to actually hurt me.
Random turn on’s: randomly catching a glimpse of an appealing curve or shadow (typically around muscles or butt but not always), the concept of trampoline sex, smell of boyfriend’s particular sweat+deodorant combination. (is like the axe effect but since it isn’t axe, I think it’s better)

If my husband touches my neck in that certain spot, it turns me on instantly. Not to mention biting there. Oooo!

Also, I like big guys. The taller, the better. And they gotta have some meat on their bones. And they have to be fun and funny. I like to laugh and have a good time during sex. Good thing my husband fits all these categories!

Algebra.

HORSEBACK RIDING!!! not only does it turn me on, it gets me off.

a man’s wrists and arms, being touched softly in certain places like my neck, or the small of my back.

All I need is a hint of a suggestion that you might want to give me a blowjob—assuming you are a reasonably attractive female and can carry on an interesting conversation for a few minutes, or if you are a bombshell, then I really don’t give a fuck if you can talk. Just look at my crotch with lust and boing!

You did ask what turns me on, right? I’m such a simple guy when you get down to it! But let me make it clear. Nothing even remotely like that has ever happened to me. Not even when I’m watching porn. Doesn’t really matter, I suppose. I still get turned on more than enough.

I would have to say watching ducks eat bread from the pond.

Women with intelligence, confidence, a sense of humour, who are confident, well read, who love to be held close and who love to touch and be touched.

It seems @Simone_De_Beauvoir and I have similar tastes (except for my heteromonogamy) preferences.

@jonsblond: For you, I could make an exception. :^)

@cprevite Some peanut butter/chocolate chip cookies are headed your way. :D

Athletic Men. The gym is where my eye-candy always is. I’d never date a slob in a million years.
Oh, and the big gigantic ego. I love someone that challenges me.

I’m crazy for women my age or a little younger in peasant skirts.

Confidence, intelligence, and a willigness to experiment.

Women with instruments (preferably an electric bass or guitar) playing aggressive music with jeans and a black shirt
Example

It appears we have to add Brie cheese to the list.

@Adirondackwannabe: Agreed wholeheartedly.

Jimi Hendrix’s music – particularly A Band of Gypsies.