@Keysha – My purpose here isn’t to argue. You’ve given me your opinions as a person from the retail industry and I appreciate that. However, since you are inviting discussion, I will indulge. Besides, this thread is about petered out by now I suspect so I won’t be influencing anyone much by what I say.
For one thing, you seem to be assuming that this is a kind of group fitting room where there are several changing stalls in a shared space, like Macy’s for example. However, lots of stores aren’t like that. This store had single stall fitting rooms, so they wouldn’t have been together all the time.
I agree with the chat and show off, as I love to indulge in that myself, but otherwise your experience is different from mine. Even in stores with shared fitting room stalls I’m not in the company of the person I shop with all the time. Some of the time I am out hunting and not in the immediate company of my friend or friends. It only takes a moment to stuff a dress or other garment into a handbag or shopping bag. I certainly don’t try to keep count of what the person I am shopping with brings in or out.
On the question of whether the store makes a decision about being jailed, the answer to that can vary from legal jurisdiction to legal jurisdiction. In some states retail stores are actually given power to lay charges directly. In the state where this happend that is not the case. However, as I stated elsewhere, as a practical matter the police in this jurisdiction do not perform any kind of investigation or evaluation of the evidence. If the store wants to book them it calls the police, someone makes out a complaint, and off they go to be booked. Someone booked late in the day can’t be taken before a judge until the next morning, so staying in jail is very common unless it is already full with violent offenders. So, technically the store does not “decide” whether someone is taken to jail or held overnight and the store does not order the police to do anything, but the store loss prevention (LP) people know the drill and know pretty much exactly is going to happen to the suspect if they call the police on them. So, if the LP agents did not have probable cause to detain my client, they are responsible for what happened.
As to the decision to prosecute criminally, that is ultimately up to the DA, not the store or the police. As I said, the thief pled guilty and the charges against my client were dismissed so the DA didn’t think he had a good case.
As to being allowed back into the store, of course not. The store gave her a store ban, which is pretty much automatic. If she goes back in for any reasoon she would be subject to arrest and conviction for criminal trespass. However, I do not see whay that would be pertinent in your mind to the question of whether the store errred in detaining her and turning her over to the police in the first place. There is no doubt here that the LP agents thought she was a shoplifter so of course they gave her a store ban. They also entered her name in the national retail theft database. The store’s legal departmet sent her a civil demand – which I advised her not to pay – for several hundred dollars. However, none of that has anything to do with whether she should have been detained in the first place. The question there is: “Did they have a reasonable belief that she was a thief?”
I am disappointed, but not surprised, that so many are willing to jump to the conclusion that she was a thief simply because she was with someone else who was. This kind of willingness to make quick judgments for expediency’s sake in place of a dispassionate evaluation of the evidence is, I would observe, one of the reasons we don’t live in one of those nice sci-fi worlds you reference in your profile but increasingly seem to be moving in the direction of an Orwellian one.