Focus on feeling just a little better in each moment. It is too hard usually to switch from panic/fear etc to feeling joyful/happy/contented/optimistic or hopeful, so you pick anything that helps you feel just that little bit better, and keep on doing it. As you feel a little bit better, focus on those things that will make you feel just a little bit better than you are feeling now… and so on and so on.
This may include exercise/meditation, etc as others have suggested. Do what works for you. And
With each thought that makes you feel bad/negative, look at the thought and turn it around a little, find a different way of looking at the content of the thought that feels just a bit better… For example: “Everything’s falling apart!” Find something small thing that isn’t… are “Well I got myself out of bed today… I’m still here… Feeling scared or panicked means I’m alive… People are answering my question on Fluther, that’s good.. ” What small things have worked… And you will go from strength to strength!
I enslaved myself in depression for many years, did the Prozac thing (and I was fortunate it worked very fast and well for me). It was not a solution and it is not good for the nervous system. The answer lies within in your own Power (and You have it), in managing your thoughts, it’s a skill you can learn easily just by intending it and practicing.
I think it was Mahatma Ghandi who said: “Be the change you want to see in the world”, He was speaking about his country. It applies to each of us in our personal lives. Be the change you want to see… and watch what happens. :)
As an aside, my ‘depressiveness’ was cured with the help of a diet give to me by a good friend and tough teacher. It worked for me, and I have that freedom now. I include the diet in the hope that it may be useful to you or others.
I know you CAN do it. I did. And I am not unique in this.
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As given by my teacher and friend:
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This is a high protein and high fat diet which is most excellent for stabilising the nervous system, including brain activity. It will also be excellent for your depression.
Eat 3 meals per day.
Eat plenty of fatty meat, preferably grilled and medium cooked. This includes bacon and eggs.
Eat plenty of salmon, either grilled or in smoked form.
Eat plenty of green vegetables, either cooked or as salad.
Eat plenty of nuts, unsalted.
Eat plenty of fresh fruit as fruit salad, but avoid deciduous fruit.
Eat plenty of soft creamy cheeses.
Eat plenty of butter, but avoid starches. Butter to be used in cooking and eaten liberally with cooked vegetables.
Eat plenty of cream with fresh fruit salads, or deserts made with cream.
Eat plenty of double cream yoghurt.
Eat plenty of ice-cream.
Drink as much full cream milk as desired.
No more than 2 glasses of dry white wine at dinner time.
The use of herbs and spices is allowed.
Foods to be avoided:
Coffee.
Chocolate.
Deciduous fruits and juices thereof.
Starches (potatoes, pasta, noodles, rice, bread, biscuits, cake).
Sugar.
Red or orange vegetables, except for tomatoes.
Red and sweet wines.
Alcohol, other than the wine that is allowed.