@Wundy
Wading through everything may not be a problem for you but it definitely is for me and I suspect many others as well.
Perhaps I’m projecting, but inclined to think not. There are only so many hours in a day and there are so many sites clamoring for our time and attention.
In making a decision as to whether or not a site is worth my time to invest in it, I want the most efficient method as possible.
Your initial Q focused upon why people make decisions to stay or not to stay.
But then the focus is shifted to whether reputation should count. All worthy issues, mind you, but apples and oranges.
I merely use posts by long time users to get a read on a particular site. Once I’m there, that’s a different thing altogether.
I’ll give an example. One of the
Lolcats sites has a forum on it.
Reading through and paying attention to the old timers convinced me that it wasn’t compatible for me. It’s nice to drop in occasionally to see the new funny pics. But to participate. For me, not in a million years. Even the mods take pride in their fractured spelling and grammar. I don’t think so. Not for me.
That’s a rather extreme example but it gets the point across. Obviously these forums fit like a glove for some people. Just not me.
But once I decided to stick around Fluther, it was pretty much irrelevant to me how many people chose to lurve any comments I made.
I just gave the best answer I could and if someone liked it, fine. If they didn’t that’s the way it goes. Regardless, the tone of the site is what made me decide that it was comfortable for me.
Now that I’m here, I don’t usually pay attention to others rep or lurve in determining my GAs. If I felt that a good faith effort was made, I lurve it regardless of who posted it. I decide by content, not by author. But I guess I’m just sort of a liberal lurver in general.
I think more people are likely to leave the site if they are uncomfortable with the standards not because they’re the new kids on the block. That will happen to them naturally on any participatory site on the Internet.
I think some people come on a whim, most likely don’t spend lurking time, and leave when they realize it’s not their type of place.
I don’t think that making it more difficult to tell vets from newbies will change that dynamic. People are still going to leave with their shorts in a knot over the writing standards, conduct standards or being held accountable to defend their positions. Regardless of new or old.
I think those factors are far more influential in whether they stay or go. Eliminating lurve won’t change that dynamic one bit.
It will just make it more difficult and needlessly frustrating for discerning folks to get the lay of the land.
Let’s face it. In spite of the mods best efforts anybody can post truly awful crap which will be up for some amount of time before being removed. If a newcomer encounters it, a simple glance at the numbers can tell if this is just a drive by or an established member. This info all contributed to a new persons impressions of the site as a whole.
And I think reputation does matter. Should it? I guess that’s for each person to decide.