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[NSFW]Can i get a sexually transmitted desease this way?

Asked by chickenfingers09 (13points) August 18th, 2010

My boyfriend just recently told me he was tested positive for chlymidia. I of course got checked & my results came back negative.So long story short..we had oral sex one night..he wore a condom while I gave him a blow job & he went down on me.I didn’t exacly think about it till the next morning, if he could pass it just by putting his lips and tounge on my vagina..so that’s my question.. is there a possibility that I would have it by just that?

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MissA's avatar

I would get re-tested in a couple of weeks. I would err always on caution. Good luck…and, how great that he told you. Good guy.

MissA's avatar

I believe that it is treatable.

JLeslie's avatar

Is he on meds already? Did he give oral sex to the girl he got the Chlamydia from? Keep the hell away from him until he is done with his meds. Just so you know symptoms would probably start or you in a few days, if you are infected, if you get symptoms. Change in discharge, usually yellowish, and pain near your ovaries. You might want to be retested to be safe. Many women are asymptomatic and destroy their fertility.

chickenfingers09's avatar

Thanx for the advice guys..& yes he admitted he cheated ..it was tough for me to even look at him for a while..& I am not sure if he did go down on this other bitch..oh wow..it hurts me still.but that’s my heart & I love him.but that’s a whole nother subject..lol thanx for the advice & ill be sure to get tested again.

MyNewtBoobs's avatar

No, he can’t pass it on from just going down on you. However, you should get re-checked, and then go on a break from sex until he (and you, maybe) has finished with the pills to clear it up – otherwise, you may end up just passing it back and forth.

Simone_De_Beauvoir's avatar

Well, I don’t think he can give it to you by going down on you but you might get it by going down on him but chances are slim, real slim

MissA's avatar

When I said that it was great that he told you, I wasn’t aware that he’d been cheating on you. I thought that he was a new boyfriend and you had not yet had sex.

I do hope you are able to manage something good FOR YOU within this relationship. So many of us have been where you are…well, perhaps not with the STD. But, if only a broken heart could be mended with a few pills…

caringstd66's avatar

yes. go to have a test when it neccessary. i know that some don’t even know that they have them.Sometimes it can take months or years to show up. if you like,i’d like recommend you to ask the live std counselor on the largest and most trusted HIV health support and safe dating community Positivemate,,com .he’s really patient and knowledgeable.

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