Do members of the LGBT community feel society finds them "disgusting"? (Read the details before you jump on my butt please)

I was reading one of the advice columns Thursday, and a lesbian couple were writing in regarding one of the neighbors who was playing “disgusting, loud music” at all hours. She wanted to ask them to turn it down, but she also commented “Maybe they find us disgusting”. That bothered me but is that the way it is? I’m probably going to get my head handed to me but that’s OK.