Need to farm, & cook / process food before eating
Since the invention of cooking, natural selection has favoured those of us who have larger, more energy-hungry brains – a purely raw vegetarian diet doesn’t provide enough calories for us. Cooking decreases the energy we expend digesting food, and increases the calories we extract from our food. Cooking meats also reduces the caloric burden of breaking the proteins down.
Need to wear clothing, and need for extensive shelter from the elements.
This is not strictly true – it’s been posted several times already that clothing is more of a social function than biological necessity in tropical and sub-tropical climates.
Multitude of languages
Which all do largely the same thing – every language predicates, for example.
Ability to pass on knowledge from generation to generation (rather than just passing on the beneficial genes)
Again, this has been shown above to be a common occurrence. However, our extended chilhood and adolescence (20 years, give or take!) gives us enormous plasticity in learning and adapting to change.
similarly a large component of our knowledge and behaviour being determined by what we learn and experience, rather than what we are born with
See above.
Self-awareness (rare though not exclusive to humans I guess)
It depends on how we define self-aware and how we test for it. I’d suggest that we’ve been so wrong on things like tool-making and socialisation among even our closest related apes that there’s a strong possibility we’re wrong on this count too.
Ability to use tools (rare again)
The opposable thumb is a wonderful adaptation, the plasticity of learning, long window for cultural transmission (we’re a relatively long-lived species) and our big, energy-hungry brains gives us plenty of scope for innovative tool-making and use.
Ability for abstract thinking, concepts, scientific theories, experimentation
As I said above, I think our uniqueness is actually reducible to one or two necessary conditions – cooking food is a necessary condition for human ‘uniqueness’ as it freed us to evolve big brains. That, along with our plasticity and extended childhoods explains a great deal.
Once certain necessary conditions are in place, I suspect that, given a bit of luck (i.e. no mass extinction-inducing events like the formation of the Deccan Traps or K-T boundary impacts) a technological species is very likely to arise.